Sex Therapist Dr. Viviana Coles explains if Carrie really can have sex like a man and what women actually need to learn from men about sex... (S4 E4 "What's Sex Got to Do With It?")
Are You A Charlotte?
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4.7 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 6 April 2026
⏱️ 48 minutes
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Who better than to really deep dive and analyze “What’s Sex Got to Do With It” then Sex Therapist Dr. Viviana Coles? From Charlotte and Trey’s frustrating silence around intimacy to the bold claim that maybe she shouldn’t go back at all, the conversation digs into what really happens when sex becomes the unspoken problem in a relationship.
Plus, Carrie and Ray’s no-strings chemistry sparks a bigger debate: are women overcomplicating desire while men simply lean into it?
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| 0:00.0 | This is an I-Heart podcast. |
| 0:02.5 | Guaranteed Human. |
| 0:05.5 | Hi, I'm Kristen Davis, and I want to know, are you a Charlotte? |
| 0:12.1 | Hi, everyone. |
| 0:13.5 | Welcome to Are You a Charlotte? |
| 0:15.4 | Today, we have a super fun and interesting guest. |
| 0:18.6 | Her name is Dr. Viviana Coles. |
| 0:20.7 | She is a licensed marriage and family |
| 0:23.0 | therapist and a certified sex therapist. With 20 years of experience, she is lovely and super smart. |
| 0:31.4 | The main reason that I wanted her on was to talk about the whole Trey and Charlotte storyline. |
| 0:36.8 | And she has a lot of interesting things to say about it. And then also we're going to talk about the whole Trey and Charlotte storyline. And she has a lot of interesting things to say about it. |
| 0:39.4 | And then also we're going to talk about episode 404, what sex got to do with it, which is directed by the wonderful Ellen Coulter and written by Nicole Averill. So please join us for both episodes this week. It's really interesting. Okay. |
| 0:54.4 | Hi, Kristen. Nice to meet you. Hi. Thank you for joining us. Can I call you Dr. Viviana? |
| 0:59.7 | Of course. That would be great. Thank you. I am, you gave me the best reason to run it back with the seasons. |
| 1:08.0 | And they're so good. I was I was just finishing up another episode. I just |
| 1:14.5 | it's so fun. Thank you. Thank you. Thanks for having me. It's my pleasure. I mean, it's funny because, |
| 1:20.8 | you know, obviously this was a long time ago that we filmed this, but the episodes really hold up. |
| 1:26.2 | So it's very interesting for me to be re-watching them |
| 1:29.2 | myself. And a lot of the times we'll just say here to ourselves when we're watching, |
| 1:34.2 | especially this whole Trey Charlotte storyline, like, I'm trying to think to myself, like, |
| 1:38.4 | did we talk to sex therapists at the time? Like, what, how, what were we thinking? But also we were in the middle of filming, |
| 1:46.4 | right? And we were just kind of going with the scripts as they were given to us, right? But it does |
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