My Girl, Sex with Emily, aka Emily Moss is back and today as always she's helping us spice up our sex lives. In case you don't know who Emily Moss is, my girl actually impacts millions of people's sex lives and is igniting all kinds of pleasure around the globe. Now when it comes to sexuality and relationships, Emily is a brick-and-power house and literally the woman to pay attention to. She helps not just you guys, but me also embrace desire, pleasure and taps into our inner sexuality and our seductiveness if you will. Now this two-part episode is just what you need from the fiery queen of intimacy herself to give us the tools and tips that we need to have a thriving, hot, electrifying relationship with our partner. So, in a saying all of that, let's just dive in right now with my girl, sex with Emily, Emily Mores. But before we do guys, I've got to talk to you about the freaking badass content that Women of Impact is now putting out. If you want to elevate and get even more freaking badass, then then you already are. Hoey, go check out Women of Extra Impact subscription on Apple Podcasts. You can listen with zero ads so that saves you the time and it gives you access to exclusive, curated playlist on essential topics like health, confidence, business and relationships or like today's episode sex. So just go over, subscribe and get your first week at Apple.co slash women of impact. That's Apple.co slash women of impact to get your extra badass dose of impact. 95% of men orgasm when they have sex and usually it can take them five minutes. With women it's 65 65% of women only have orgasms and it usually takes us around 18 minutes. Yes, orgasm. So help us explain why. Let's talk about the orgasm gap for a minute. There is a huge disparity in our pleasure when it comes to sex. Typically men are gonna orgasm between, yeah, like let's say five to 10 minutes every time. Women between 18 and 40 minutes.

So, hello, there's a gap. That's the first part of the gap. The second part of the gap is, yeah, men are going to orgasm most of the time. That's not a problem. I never hear from men saying, I can't orgasm during sex. I hear it from women every single day. For almost two decades. But the problem is so many women feel,

they feel bad about themselves,

they feel discouraged,

they feel like something's wrong with them,

but I just, for almost two decades. But the problem is so many women feel, they feel bad about themselves,

they feel discouraged, they feel like something's wrong with them, but I just wanna normalize it and say, this is what happens. It is a gap and we have to close that orgasm gap. And it's like, dude, you're gonna get there. She comes first. Make sure that she gets there, do what you need to do, do the foreplay, do the reisel.

Find out what turns her on.

And if you don't know what turns her on,

and she doesn't know what turns her on.

And if you don't know what turns her on,

and she doesn't know what turns her on,

well, that's why I wrote this book. I mean, literally, I have all these steps. Most of us don't know. Most of us don't know there's a gap, and then we're like, oh, we might know there's a problem and we're not going to turn on, but we don't know why.

All right, so today I want to close the gap.

Firstly, though, explained to me,

it was what you say, like today I want to close the gap. Firstly, though, explains to me,

it was, what do you say, like, 85% of women in gay relationships,

get out, come, what the hell is going on there, go?

They know the parts.

They know the parts. They name the parts.

You're with somebody who knows exactly

they know the plumbing.

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