women have always had these tendencies.

They've always been alive in the female species,

but now they're like ratcheted up because of the social media refractory panopticon thing.

Trust me, like no one is looking at you and thinking how ugly you are in the course of a normal conversation.

And even if that was their first impression, they're not dwelling on it, especially if you're

like present and engaged.

It's all in your head.

And this desire to know in advance and manage and control what's going on in other people's heads is literally also textbook narcissistic ideation.

And again, yeah, what it does is like actively prevents you from being present and engaged and making a good impression.

Not just about other people, but about anything besides that thing.

Your most like hollow self, your like physical form.

Yeah.

And it's like it to the point that like it starts to look like your suspicions are being

confirmed by the data that you're starts to look like your suspicions are being confirmed by the data

that you're getting from the outside world.

Because you know,

you're seeing people that are prettier than you.

Or when people react badly to you or more likely like don't react at all,

you think it's because you're ugly,

but it's really because you have failed

to make a good impression or they're just not thinking about you because they're also too in their

head. Yeah. I'm a veteran to this. I've been getting called ugly on the internet for over

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