Season 10 Episode 21: An Open Letter to S****y Husbands

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Society & Culture, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Relationships, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 910 Ratings

🗓️ 1 July 2020

⏱️ 90 minutes

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Summary

What if we told you the silent killer of marriage was something so seemingly small, so avoidable? Join us as we chat with Matthew Fray about how a “good guy” like him ended up being a sh****y husband and how others can avoid these missteps. We discuss why neglecting your partner's thoughts and feelings is the demise of a relationship, how to recognize signs of this behavior even in early dating, and the importance of being aware of this now even if you're nowhere close to marriage. Check out Matt's blog: https://mustbethistalltoride.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partner for this episode: This episode is brought to you by Kensington’s newest title from Lorelei Parker, CRUSHING IT. You can find CRUSHING IT wherever books are sold. Find out more at kensingtonbooks.com Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the Huffington Post calls
0:04.8	one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each episode we'll talk to real daters about everything
0:11.2	from sex parties to sex dreptts, date fails to diaper fetishes,
0:14.8	and first moves to first loves. I'm your host U.S.U. former dating coach turned
0:19.3	dating sociologist. You also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Craftchick as we explore this crazy
0:26.0	dateable world.
0:27.0	Hey everyone, welcome to another episode of
0:33.4	dateable a show all about modern dating but so much more than just
0:38.1	modern dating in the ten seasons that we've been doing this show we realize that
0:42.3	we talk about everything that is modern
0:45.4	dating, but also just the reasons behind why people do the things they do, right, Julie?
0:50.3	It's so much more than just dating stories.
0:52.1	Yeah, and why like modern dating. It's so much more than just dating stories.
0:52.6	Yeah, and why like modern dating is forever changing how we do relationships,
0:57.5	which we'll be going into a lot more on this season finale that we have for you all
1:01.7	about just how this equates to the long term.
1:04.8	That's right, you heard that right?
1:06.2	This is the season finale for our 10th season, I still can't believe it.
1:10.6	Our guest today came to us through multiple sources. I feel like many people shared his articles about shitty husbands. You probably know what I'm talking about. If not, you'll obviously hear the entire interview but it just brings back the quote that we've been saying since season one which is we're all each other's consequences
1:30.3	and in this current time in everything we're going through right now, I really hope that we can take that to heart.
1:37.0	With COVID, we're all each other's consequences too.
1:40.0	And Julie, I don't know if I fully express how disappointed I was this week because I was supposed to go down to LA to visit my parents.
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