SC 56 - 100% Responsibility Vs When To Leave The Relationship & Other Relationship Questions

The Jayson Gaddis Podcast

Jayson Gaddis

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.7 • 999 Ratings

🗓️ 15 June 2016

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

Your relationship questions are answered in this episode. We cover a lot of ground. One theme is how to deal with “value” differences in an intimate relationship. This one is really good because it can tear a relationship apart trying to fit each other into your respective boxes of how you prefer they be.

SHOWNOTES

How long to wait for your partner to blend your families and get married? [7:15]
How can partners adapt in a relationship when one partner has a chronic illness? [11:45]
Why do men lie? [14:00]
What’s the reason our relationship improves when my man hangs out with this guy friends? [17:30]
How to tell your guy about erectile dysfunction without making it worse? [20:00]
What skills are best to use when you’re highly triggered and avoid an argument? [21:45]
How to keep childhood issues from breaking up your relationship? [23:45]
How do you know when to take 100% responsibility and when to leave a partner who is not willing to do the work? [26:00]
What if your ex is creating challenges for me to blend families with my new partner? [30:00]
When you have different values, what’s the best way to deal with that? [33:30]
Does it make sense to avoid dating men whose taxi light isn’t on, like Miranda said in Sex & The City?
What about when partners have opposite views on how to handle money in a relationship? [40:45]
Long-distance relationships: how do I get my man to show me that he’s emotionally ready to commit? [42:45]
What should a woman do with her kids when their dad just walks out? [44:15]
How to deal with a man who is emotionally unavailable? [46:45]
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0:00.0	and sometimes loving her might mean letting go of her. So, Hey, welcome back to the Smart Couple Podcast. Yeah, you're on a run, you're walking,
0:32.3	you're doing the dishes, you're listening with your partner,
0:34.8	arm and arm gazing into each other's eyes, right?
0:40.3	Whatever the case may be, in moment you're listening and I want to thank you
0:46.2	Because without your listening there would be no
0:50.5	Podcast correct so I'm grateful for you today. And if you're just joining us, this
0:56.8	podcast is for men and women who want to grow and have awesome relationships. Deep relationships, fulfilling ones, not
1:06.2	relationships that are pain-free because that doesn't exist, but relationships that
1:10.2	are very nourishing over the long haul.
1:13.9	Right, we all long to belong, we long for community, we long for partnership, and we, in our
1:21.2	heart of hearts, most of us want at least one person that we can completely
1:25.8	count on that has our back and so that's what this podcast is about it's here to
1:31.4	help you get exactly that. Now there's something important
1:36.2	here to mention which is this 75 year study on they did at Harvard University
1:41.8	following men over 75 years and the study concluded
1:46.3	really one thing which was that the quality of your life depends on the quality of your relationships.
1:53.0	So if that's not incentive for you, I don't know what is.
1:56.0	And we know now that having amazing solid relationships in your life
2:02.0	not only helps you live longer but it can help prevent disease,
2:07.0	stress, and loneliness, etc.
2:12.0	And so I'm all in, right, with that conversation.
2:17.7	Why would I not want to invest a lot of time money and energy
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