SC 55 - The Purpose Of Relationship Pain
The Jayson Gaddis Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
4.7 • 999 Ratings
🗓️ 8 June 2016
⏱️ 30 minutes
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Summary
Relationship pain has a very clear purpose. If you are hip to it, you’ll thrive in relationships. If you are uneducated here, you’ll run away and play the victim. Direct and to the point, I suggest a very important daily practice for you to strengthen your mindset about long-term partnership. Pain hurts indeed. And, what if pain was your ally in disguise?
SHOWNOTES
- Your only two choices you have about your relationship pain [4:30]
- What is one of the harshest versions of relational pain [6:00]
- The first thing to NOT do when in relationship pain. [11:00]
- The good news about pain and stress [15:45]
- What happens when you just bounce from relationship to relationship. [17:00]
- The link between your emotional pain and your numbing habits. [21:45]
- What makes someone really unattractive. [25:00]
Relationship Pain Daily Practice
I have two choices with my relationship pain:
1. Use it to make me weaker by whining, complaining, and blaming others (or myself).
2. Use it to make me stronger by seeing it as my ally to master the lesson it’s bringing me.
It’s 100% of the time up to me to choose.
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | It feels kind of embarrassing and shameful to admit we're so |
| 0:04.8 | fucking incompetent at long-term relationship. the Hey, what's up, welcome back to the Smart Couple Podcast. |
| 0:29.0 | Hey, what's up? |
| 0:30.0 | Welcome back to the Smart couple podcast. I'm grateful that I get to talk about what I love. Intimate |
| 0:40.0 | long-term relationships. |
| 0:46.5 | Because it was such a challenging thing for me, |
| 0:48.9 | and it still is challenging for me, |
| 0:52.3 | to be in a long-term committed partnership and to learn so much about myself in the process. I can't tell you how much I've learned |
| 0:57.0 | over the years. |
| 1:01.0 | All right, if you're just joining us, welcome to the podcast. Thanks for coming. |
| 1:05.9 | If you're a return listener, thank you for your feedback and your continued |
| 1:12.3 | listenership. |
| 1:13.0 | If you got more feedback for us, |
| 1:15.0 | bring it on |
| 1:16.0 | info at jason-Gattis.com. |
| 1:20.0 | All right, this podcast, if you're new, is really designed to get you to grow and pay attention to yourself in your relationship life |
| 1:29.5 | Because the only way to have a fulfilling relationship that works over the long haul in my experience |
| 1:37.1 | is to pay attention to yourself and what triggers you and what that's about for you and it's just this amazing crucible to learn |
| 1:48.2 | about a human being and the human being that is you. So, wow, right? |
| 1:54.0 | If you've ever been in a lot of pain |
| 1:57.0 | and you don't see the point, |
| 1:59.0 | it can feel like someone's out to get you, |
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