In romantic movies, romantic comedies, you don't see them unpacking how the impact of childhood

is shaping their experience of this moment.

So somehow it feels super unromantic, but in some ways, like it's,'s oh my God what could be more romantic? So, Hey, what's up, Campers?

Jason Gatis here with another episode of The

Relationship Schools Smart Couple Podcast.

Campers, you ask?

Exactly.

That's what I call my kids, okay?

I say, what's up, Campers?

We like to go camping. It's cute. It's endearing guys. Relax, okay? When you have kids, you get really dorky and silly. Some of your parents know this. I think one of my

favorite parts about myself is being around my children and being a total goofball with them.

At some point I got to bring them on the podcast. We'll have some fun.

Okay, welcome back, glad you're here and grateful that you are the kind of person that wants to learn about human intimacy and that you're not going to just rely on your past history

and your implicit memory and the reactivity in your nervous system to just act out, right?

When you get triggered and when you get upset and activated by people.

Don't you think people are really challenging human beings?

Man, they are. Geez, oh mighty. So check this out. In this

episode I've got a guest returning for the second time.

And I love this woman.

She is one of our ambassadors here at the relationship school,

Alexandra Solomon.

She wrote a book called Loving Bravely. If you haven't bought that and read it, I highly recommend it.

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