SC 203 - Reassuring A Jealous Partner - Ellen & Jayson
The Jayson Gaddis Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
4.7 • 999 Ratings
🗓️ 3 July 2018
⏱️ 17 minutes
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Summary
We all want a little reassurance. And that's okay! But as Jayson's wife Ellen Boeder points out, if you're needing reassurance because you feel jealous, the issue you should address is the insecurity in your relationship.
- Is Monogamy The Problem Or Insecure Attachment? [1:00]
- The Power Of Reassurance [5:00]
- Two Impediments To Reassurance [10:00]
- Navigating A Jealous Partnership [13:00]
For the full Smart Couple Podcast webpage for this episode featuring Ellen Boeder visit https://relationshipschool.net/podcast203
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| 0:00.0 | It's really normal and okay to want to be reassured. I still want reassurance from you. It's nice and about different things. So, Welcome to the Relationship Schools Smart Couple Podcast hosted by Jason Gatis and co-hosted by |
| 0:39.0 | co-hosted by me his wife Ellen Bader. Yes, what's up Ellen? |
| 0:44.0 | Glad to have you back. |
| 0:45.0 | Thanks. |
| 0:46.0 | Yeah. |
| 0:47.0 | We wanted to dive into, we've been jamming a little bit about the Dan Savage |
| 0:51.0 | podcast. |
| 0:52.0 | I've also talked to some friends about jealousy, |
| 0:55.6 | insecurity, reassuring people monogamish and so we just wanted to tack on to that |
| 1:00.5 | interview and offer you some helpful tips. |
| 1:03.0 | Yes. |
| 1:04.0 | Do you want to start us off? |
| 1:05.0 | Sure. |
| 1:06.0 | Yeah, I was listening to the Dan Savage interview, which was great. |
| 1:11.0 | It was awesome to have him. And I love the perspective that he brings from |
| 1:15.8 | his relationship experiences as you know taking so many letters and from people for so many years and |
| 1:21.2 | as a gay man. |
| 1:22.8 | And I felt like I just wished I'd been there |
| 1:27.4 | because he was speaking to things |
| 1:30.3 | that I wanted to check out with him and I think I was inferring some things he was saying that were exciting and interesting to me and one of them was that, you know, as he was talking about these scenarios where couples get into arguments and struggles |
| 1:49.6 | about monogamy, you know, whether there's affairs or things like that, jealousy stuff, |
| 1:58.6 | things that he thinks monogamy can, you know, be hard, where his monogamy can be hard for people. |
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