Savage Lovecast Episode 899

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.7 • 6.3K Ratings

🗓️ 16 January 2024

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

A gay man's best friend has such a devastating crush on him, that they can't be friends anymore. The caller begged him to try to get over it. But crushes are crushing. Is there anything this (platonically) jilted caller can do? Here's the scenario: A straight, divorced woman starting dating a *wonderful* man, and they started seeing each other exclusively. He really is spectacular. But then she received a message on Instagram from a woman claiming to be his other girlfriend, who also thinks she's dating him exclusively. He promised to fly straight, stop the lying and stick with the caller. She notices that he has a Snapchat account that he uses suspiciously. He gets calls from other women all the time. He has kids from a previous marriage, but he hasn't told his children about her. Guess why he got divorced. He was cheating all the time! Here's the heart-breaking punchline to this call: Her question is- how can she learn to get over her paranoia and just trust this guy? On the Magnum, here's an etiquette question: Is it appropriate for a dominatrix to command her subs to buy her costumes and gear? That stuff ain't cheap. Dan brings on the formidable dominatrix Inanna Justice to talk about the things we can and can't ask our subs to do for us. And a woman is the secondary in poly relationship. She is grieving the fact that she will never get to live with him and experience the mundane intimacies of a primary relationship. Ah, to fold his laundry, just once! [email protected] 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. Helix is offering 20% off all mattress orders AND two free pillows ! Go to HelixSleep.com/Savage. With Helix, better sleep starts now. This episode is brought to you by Hims, providing affordable access to ED treatment, online. Start your free online visit today at Hims.com/Savage. Get a 4-week trial, free postage, and a digital scale at https://www.stamps.com/savage. Thanks to Stamps.com for sponsoring the show!

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0:00.0	You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Love cast at savage dot love.
0:05.2	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary or if you're looking for sexual harmony.
0:13.0	Well, there's nothing you can't
0:17.0	pass on the Savage Lovecast.
0:22.0	We can't talk about the Iowa Caucasus because at the time of this recording Monday afternoon
0:28.1	I don't know the results and that's probably a relief because at this point
0:32.2	whatever time you listen to the show after Tuesday morning, you're probably sick of hearing about the results.
0:38.0	And you can hear about Iowa and actual news everywhere. You don't need to hear about the actual news here on your
0:45.6	favorite sex podcast. You would probably much rather hear about a lighthouse in Maine
0:50.4	with a crazy name that I just heard about. It's called Cuckolds Light. Full name,
0:55.8	the Cuckolds Island, Fog Signal, and Light Station. And this lighthouse has been there since
1:01.0	1890 and somehow I only just found out about it yesterday.
1:06.2	Cuckold's Light has a wiki page and nowhere on it does wiki explain how
1:11.5	Cuckold's Light got its name, which seems strange since his name is literally
1:15.6	the only interesting thing about Cuckold's Light. Finding out how Cuckold's Light got its
1:19.9	name is the only reason anyone has ever visited its wiki page ever and you can't find that
1:26.4	information out there. I looked it up elsewhere. Turns out, Cuckelts Light is named for Cuckelts Point, a bend in the Thames River in London, which legend has it,
1:36.0	got its name after King John, he's the 12th century English monarch who signed the Magna Carta,
1:40.8	got its name after King John gave the land to some lord or other whose wife
1:45.0	King John had fucked. All right that's enough Lighthouse. Let's talk about the
1:50.1	Republican majority city council and some tick-infested shithole in Connecticut that just banned
1:54.8	pride flags from flying over their city hall. This new policy enacted last week
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