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Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 862

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.76.3K Ratings

🗓️ 25 April 2023

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

A gay man living in the south is having a heckuva time trying to find a trans man to hook up with. Also he doesn’t want to come across as a chaser… Hear the unpleasant tale of the careless, selfish dom who boxed his lover on the ears twice (after being told not to) and took some non-consensual pics as well. You hate to see it. On the Magnum, Dan brings on non-binary the comedian Mae Martin. They talk about “the gender thing” - gender fluidity, top surgery, the difference between sex and gender, neo-pronouns and the freedom to pursue who you are. Martin is a delight, as is their comedy special on Netflix. And, a woman and her boyfriend want him locked up in a chastity cage. But how can she keep his “beautiful dick” safe? [email protected] 206-302-2064 Foria Wellness Foria is an all natural health & sexual wellness company with product lines using the power of plant actives & CBD to effectively enhance intimacy, sexual pleasure, daily wellbeing, and relief from discomfort. Get 20% off your first order by visiting ForiaWellness.com/Savage

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0:00.0

You're listening to the microversion of the Savage Love cast at Savage.loaf.

0:23.5

It feels like every week I start the show by documenting the atrocities,

0:28.7

which gets harder to do every week because there are so many atrocities to choose from.

0:34.1

This week I'm choosing Florida. Governor Ron DeSantis just signed a bill into law that expands the

0:40.4

states don't say gay law. The original don't say gay law, signed by DeSantis back in March of last

0:46.0

year, covered kindergarten through third grade. It banned all instruction about sexual orientation or

0:52.2

gender identity with very young children, third grade and under, and we were told at the time

0:57.8

no one needed to be talking to first graders about gay people or trans people anyway, so it was a

1:02.5

big nothing burger. And we were being hysterical when we compared Florida's don't say gay law

1:08.3

to Russia's anti gay propaganda law, which originally criminalized being out in front of children,

1:14.0

but has now been expanded to criminalize being out at all anywhere, period ever.

1:19.4

Now to be outdone by Vladimir Putin, Ron DeSantis's new don't say gay law, the expansion of the

1:26.1

don't say gay law prohibits any discussion of sexual orientation or gender identity in Florida

1:31.2

schools up through grade 12. So seniors in high school can't say gay can't mention having married

1:38.8

gay parents can't do a book report for an English class on the novel Giovanni's room by James Baldwin

1:44.6

or write a paper for their social studies classes about African American civil rights leader

1:49.3

and icon Baird Rustin. So yeah, it was never about what was age appropriate or very small children,

1:57.6

not that there's anything age inappropriate about first graders knowing that gay and trans people

2:02.9

exist. It was always about hate and always about trying to make queer people disappear. And it's

2:09.8

not gonna work. Take every LGBT book out of the library, banned discussions of LGBT civil rights

2:16.4

and classrooms, shove gay and lesbian teachers back in the closet. Kids will still have out gay

2:22.3

relatives. Kids will still have queer peers. Some kids will have gay parents. Some kids will be

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