Savage Lovecast Episode 825

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.7 • 6.3K Ratings

🗓️ 16 August 2022

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

A polyamorous trilingual woman wants to explore dirty talk. Her lovers all speak different languages. But she finds that when she’s talking dirty in her mother tongue it sounds and feels more aggressive than she would like. Any multi-lingual dirty talkers out there with wisdom to share? A bi woman and her man used to go to co-ed bathhouses. Once covid hit, they stopped. Now that there’s monkeypox to consider, should they stay out of this bathhouse? Or can they still go if they only play with each other while they’re there? Dan brings on medical writer Benjamin Ryan to go over some pros and cons. On the Magnum, we present an interesting conundrum and an even more interesting guest. A 45 year-old woman’s parent came out as a trans woman a few years ago. The daughter uses she/her pronouns, but gets hung up when talking about the past. She remembers growing up with a father, not two mothers, and her parent encourages use of the word “dad” to refer to that time. But that’s hard! Dan brings on Chrissy Stroop, an exvangelical writer who came out as trans in 2019, and writes about religion and queer issues. And, a woman in an open, trusting relationship couldn’t help herself and snooped over a long weekend, rummaging through her boyfriend’s phone. She didn’t find anything questionable, but when she went back to look at his What’sApp, she discovered he’d locked it. He never said anything to her about it. She feels stupid and guilty. Should she come clean? Or sit in the ickiness of her misdeed and vow to snoop no more? This episode is brought to you by Talkspace- online therapy that makes it easy to get extra mental health support. For $100 off your first month, go to Talkspace.com and use the offer code Savage. This podcast is brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the microphone and enter “Savage” for postage, a digital scale, and a 4 week trial. Foria is an all natural health & sexual wellness company with product lines using the power of plant actives & CBD to effectively enhance intimacy, sexual pleasure, daily wellbeing, and relief from discomfort. Get 20% off your first order by visiting ForiaWellness.com/Savage

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0:00.0	You're listening to the microversion of the Savage Love cast at Savage.loaf.
0:23.4	Some good news, ladies.
0:25.2	I think this is good news mostly for the ladies and save Kansas. There has been much good in the
0:32.0	news for the ladies lately, so we're going to take a moment and savor this win. A new dating app
0:38.2	just dropped. Dropping along with it, your chances of winding up in a restaurant sitting across the
0:43.9	table from someone who stormed the Capitol on January 6th and washes his trump flags more often
0:49.6	than he washes his sheets. Why don't you tell us all about it, Ryan?
0:54.1	Hey guys, I'm Ryan. I've got to tell you about something I am so excited to announce. A dating app
1:00.4	for all of us conservatives. It's called the right stuff and it's launching this September. What I love
1:06.1	most about it is that it's invite only, so not just anyone can join. First of all, it's pretty
1:12.0	used and for my ladies, you'll never have to pay because we all get premium subscriptions. For
1:17.6	simply inviting a couple friends, gentlemen, if you want access to premium, that's on you. And by
1:23.3	the way, those are the only two options. Ladies and gentlemen. So this new dating site, the right
1:29.9	stuff, invite only, which means it's not enough to be an asshole. You got to know an asshole or
1:36.3	know two assholes, two lady assholes. If you're a lady asshole yourself and you want a free premium
1:41.6	membership, gentlemen, no matter how big an asshole you are, no matter how many assholes you know,
1:49.2	you're going to have to pay for that premium membership. And of course, ladies and gentlemen
1:53.9	are the only options at the right stuff. Non-lady non-generalmen need not apply. So sorry, all you
2:01.6	assign female at birth, non-binary mask presenting allosexuals out there, you know, the kind of
2:07.8	vulva havers who sometimes go by traditionally masculine names like Ryan, you're not wanted
2:14.7	at the right stuff. No dates with anti-choice Trump supporters for you. Ryan also lets us know
2:20.8	that pronouns, just generally pronouns, not wanted on the right stuff, which seems like it's
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