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Savage Lovecast Episode 823

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.76.3K Ratings

🗓️ 2 August 2022

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

So many bi and adventurous queer men this week! A 61 year-old gay man has never, ever, ever been near a vagina since he emerged from one 6 decades ago…until now. He is seeing a trans man and finds he is loving pleasing him, but can’t quite make penetration work. And, another gay man had a great time with a trans man. So much so, that he wants to start seeing cis women. Is he ethically obliged to tell them that he has been gay all his life? On the Magnum, Dan chats with Zachary Zane, aka BOYSLUT about being promiscuous in the age of monkeypox, and how to ask politely if the third in your three-way has gotten tested for STIs. A bi man has been out there seeking casual sex. Is it appropriate to ask a hook-up partner what she would do if she got pregnant, despite their precautions? [email protected]. 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Doordash. Get breakfast, lunch, dinner and more delivered from your favorite restaurants right to your doorstep with one easy click. To get 50% off your first order of up to $15 value, use promo code SAVAGE at checkout when you spend $12 or more. Terms apply. This episode is brought to you by Framebridge. Framebridge makes it easier and more affordable than ever to frame your favorite things – without ever leaving the house. Get 15% off your first order at Framebrige.com when you use the code SAVAGE. This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of The Savage Love Cast at Savage.loaf.

0:22.9

I couldn't pick a single topic to kick off this week's show. There's just too much good stuff out there.

0:28.5

So I'm going to tear through a few topics before we begin. First up, Reverend Methan Manass,

0:33.2

Reverend Ted Haggard back in the headlines and back in them for precisely what you might have

0:38.3

guessed if you're old enough to remember the last time Reverend Methan Manass was given us all

0:44.4

headlines. Back in 2006, Haggard was ahead of the National Association of Evangelicals, a powerful

0:50.0

leader on the religious right founder of a mega mega church in Colorado Springs, which is probably

0:56.5

now a mega mega church like all the others. Haggard at the time had a weekly phone call with

1:01.7

then president George W. Bush, the worst president we thought we'd ever have, boy, where we wrong.

1:07.7

And Haggard wasn't just openly anti-gay. He was flagrantly anti-gay, flamingly anti-gay.

1:16.8

And then a gay sex worker heard Haggard publicly attacking gays and figured people had a right to

1:23.4

now Haggard had been privately attacking his dick. So Mike Jones, honest sex worker,

1:28.5

outed Ted Haggard, dishonest preacher. And it turns out Haggard wasn't just after sex from

1:34.3

Jones. He begged Jones to buy him meth and Jones had it all on tape. Voice mails. Haggard left him.

1:41.4

The Haggard sex scandal broke right before the 2006 midterm elections. And after that election,

1:47.2

a lot of political observers thought the Haggard scandal helped create a democratic wave that year.

1:52.3

In 2006, Dems took the House and Senate, a bunch of state houses and governors mansions. Voters were

1:58.0

disgusted with pious hypocrites like Ted Haggard and incompetent fucking idiots like George W. Bush.

2:05.2

Well, looks like the scandal fairy or the good omen fairy or both those fairies want this year's

2:10.9

midterm elections to go the way the 2006 midterm elections did. How else to explain Haggard making

2:16.8

headlines for being back on the poll just a few months before the rest of us go to the polls.

2:23.3

The Denver Gazette reports, powerhouse preacher Ted Haggard faces new allegations of illicit behavior.

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