Savage Lovecast Episode 814

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.7 • 6.3K Ratings

🗓️ 31 May 2022

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

A bi man in a monogamous heterosexual marriage keeps having his sexuality questioned by gay friends. It’s super annoying! Should he even bring up his bisexuality? Should he feel miffed? A woman with a newish boyfriend wants to try some consensual non-consent. Specifically, she wants to be woken from a deep sleep to him having sex with her. He readily agreed saying he would also like to be woken up mid-blow job. But how do they negotiate this ahead of time? When he’s sleeping so peacefully, she looks at him and chickens out. On the Magnum: Pegging WILL be in the Oxford English Dictionary. Or so says Dan’s new inside man. In the noble quest to enshrine the word “Pegging” in the world’s most respected record of the English language, Dan brings on Jesse Sheidlower, former editor at large of the OED to explain why some words get in and some don’t. Nerds rejoice! In your FACE Bill Savage! (This is one of Nancy’s favorite Magnum conversations just so you know.) Ok, is it true that men don’t like it if you put out too quickly? Because she let him have rough sex with her and she really enjoyed it, and they seemed to be really vibing and he kissed her goodbye, but now he’s TOTALLY GHOSTING her! It’s hard out there. [email protected] 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by Talkspace- online therapy that makes it easy to get extra mental health support. For $100 off your first month, go to Talkspace.com and use the offer code Savage. This episode is brought to you by Fiasco- a new Audible podcast by the people who made Slow Burn. This episode is all about the AIDS crisis. Check it out at Audible.com/fiascopod or text ‘FIASCOPOD’ to 500-500.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the microversion of the Savage Love cast at Savage.loaf.
0:23.9	I haven't wanted to thank a photographer so much since...
0:27.0	Well, since those photos leaked to Brad Pitt on that balcony with Gwen at the Paltrow,
0:32.0	photos I haven't looked at in years and regret looking at at all and won't look at ever again
0:37.4	because Brad Pitt's privacy was invaded by paparazzi. And I now know that looking at those
0:42.5	photos was wrong, a consent violation. I won't do it again. Anyway, there's no photo credit
0:48.0	on the picture I saw last night on Cleveland.com. So I can't thank this photographer,
0:53.2	the photographer who took that photo that I saw on Cleveland.com last night. I can't thank that
0:58.1	photographer by name, but thank you photographer for Cleveland.com, whoever you are.
1:03.7	Thank you for capturing the moment when David Walker was sentenced to four and a half years
1:08.5	in prison. Walker, according to the report at Cleveland.com, by reporter Corey Schaefer,
1:13.6	gasped audibly when he was sentenced. In the photo, his jaw is hanging open.
1:19.2	The former youth pastor for the dwelling place Family Worship Center in North Olmsted, Ohio
1:26.4	looks stunned. How could he be going to prison? He's a youth pastor. Walker only wanted to help people.
1:35.4	And friends, family members, and parishioners had all submitted letters to the judge before
1:40.3	sentencing letters that called Walker a good family man and a devoted Christian. And yet
1:47.5	four and a half years in prison for what Walker called in courts a random innocent accident.
1:56.9	Walker fucked a 14 year old girl by accident. You know how that happens? Sometimes you slip and
2:01.4	fall and fuck a 14 year old could happen to anyone from the reporter Cleveland.com. Walker said he
2:07.8	and the youth group were in a lock-in where members sleep over inside the church. When somehow,
2:13.2	the girl ended up sleeping next to him. Not that happened. He said he thought the girl sleeping next
2:18.9	to him was his wife and he started rubbing her. And he didn't realize until the next morning
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