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Savage Lovecast Episode 808

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.76.3K Ratings

🗓️ 19 April 2022

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

Mazel tov, you’re a new daddy! And by “daddy” we mean a queer, dirty-talkin’, older dom. A newly single bi man in his 40s suddenly finds himself with a bevy of young men who want him to play this role, and he doesn’t know where to begin. More semen please! A man wants to know if the various foods and supplements that promise to increase semen volume really work. On the Magnum, you should have seen the Tech-Savvy At-Risk Youth™ scurry around when we found out that Anna Sale was coming on the show. The host of Death, Sex & Money has a new podcast all about erectile dysfunction called HARD, so Dan chatted with her about ED and Viagra and much more. Unsurprisingly, Anna Sale was a delight. And, can cis people use the term “dead-naming?” The caller saw a YouTuber complaining that some people in a bar had called out the name they read from his driver’s license. He now uses his slick YouTube handle and accused the bartender of “dead-naming” him. But isn’t this term specifically for people who use a trans person’s former name? People! Words Matter. [email protected] 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep-the best mattress for your individualized comfort. Right now, get up to $200 off ALL mattress orders at HelixSleep.com/SAVAGE.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the microversion of the Savage Love cast at Savage.loaf.

0:23.0

Last week's Intro to the Podcast was kind of heavy and it was kind of long,

0:26.9

so I'm going to try to keep it light and try to keep it short this week.

0:30.8

But first, yeah, something heavy that I didn't get to last week is weighing on me and I want to

0:37.4

talk about it. So forgive me, in Texas, we got a taste of our post-rove future. A woman,

0:44.3

Luzelle Herrera, arrested after performing a self-induced abortion. Details are sketchy,

0:50.8

they're sketchy still a couple of weeks later, but Herrera was charged with murder taken to jail

0:56.2

and held on a $500,000 bond. The charges were dropped because she hadn't actually broken any laws.

1:05.1

It was reported that the ER staff called the sheriff after Herrera showed up at the hospital

1:09.7

and told them she had self-induced an abortion. The sheriff apparently arrested Herrera because

1:16.8

he felt like it. Dr. Jen Gunter, author of the vagina Bible, frequent guest on the love cast,

1:22.8

wrote a long post out on Vigenda, advising women in red states who might be self-inducing abortions

1:28.7

more often these days, self-inducing with medications that are safe and legal in blue states,

1:34.0

but only safe in red states, not legal. Dr. Gunter wrote a long post advising women

1:40.0

that emergency room physicians can't tell the difference between a miscarriage and a self-induced

1:45.3

abortion. So there is no reason to tell an ER doctor or nurse that you are there.

1:52.2

In an emergency room, because you self-induced an abortion, you can just tell them it was a miscarriage.

1:59.8

Now, complications from medication abortions are rare, but they do happen. Women in Texas and

2:06.4

other red states need to know, well, I guess they need to know that they can't trust their health

2:11.6

care providers not to call the police on them, so don't disclose. This is where we are.

2:18.1

Warning women to lie to doctors and nurses about why they're seeking emergency medical care.

2:22.4

And Roe is still, at least in theory, the law of the land. Right now an American woman has the

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