Savage Lovecast Episode 793

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 4 January 2022

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Let us start the New Year with…blackmail! A woman’s boyfriend got ensnarled by an extortionist on a kink website who sent private sexual photos to her family. Now she has to work through her anger and worry around sex and kink. Yuk, right? But then! You can hear the triumphant story of a man who batted away an aspiring blackmailer by telling her to go ahead and send out his pics “but be sure to use a filter to make my eyes look pretty.” A woman in poly relationships has gained a lot of weight after having a child. Her tertiary partners are no longer attracted to her. Should she try to persuade them to love her new bigger body, or find some other folks who will worship her for who she is now. Dan brings on Leah Carey host of “Good Girls Talk About Sex,” to help the caller grapple with her body image issues. On the Magnum, we have a “What You Got” by James Mackay, about hypnosis and pornography in a cultural history of the two genres. And finally, a woman has flashbacks after she has sex, in which her recollections fill her with disgust. It was super-hot at the time. Why does she get flooded with regret days later? Voicemail@savagelovecast.com 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. This podcast is brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the microphone and enter “Savage” for postage, a digital scale, and a 4 week trial.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at savage.love.
0:04.8	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:14.3	well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast. Happy New Year, everybody. I hope everyone has a great 2022, except for you, Betty White,
0:28.6	no 2022 for you, which is sad for us because everyone loved you and we are all going to miss you.
0:37.0	Okay, despite the fact that it is a brand new year, there are people out there
0:41.3	shitting the bed in the same old ways or shitting themselves in the same old ways in the case
0:46.6	of Rutledge Diaz the 4th.
0:49.3	You may remember that name, and if you do, you have a better memory for names than I do.
0:52.4	He was the Louisiana man who made
0:54.4	the news in 2019 made a splash or a sploosh, also made the top of my podcast. After he hired a woman
1:01.8	or women to take care of his disabled brother and change his disabled brother's diapers, only there
1:07.3	was no brother, disabled or otherwise, although there were diapers. Dias himself was wearing
1:12.5	them. He was arrested and charged with sex trafficking amongst other things because he asked the
1:17.7	women he hired to help him find other women who might want to babysit for his brother and change his
1:22.2	brother's diapers. Again, the brother didn't exist, but the diapers did. Dias was wearing them.
1:26.8	Well, poops, he did it again.
1:29.5	Sorry about that. Couldn't resist. Diaz was arrested last week for the same shit. Different year.
1:36.5	Hiring women to change his diapers under false pretenses and asking those women to help him find
1:41.3	other women to change his diapers under the same false pretenses. It is a sad and weird story.
1:47.1	But there's a lesson in it for us, if we care to see it, about how little home health care workers are paid compared to sex workers.
1:54.3	Home health care worker changing your diapers, minimum wage.
1:57.3	A sex worker changing your diapers, hundreds of dollars an hour plus tip. And people wonder
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