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Savage Love Episode 570

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 26 September 2017

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

A woman is considering finding herself a sugar daddy to make ends meet. Should she tell her boyfriend? A man has a friendly relationship with his ex-girlfriend. He just doesn't want to see her and her new man splattered all over his social media. Would it be petty to mute her for a while? On the Magnum, Dan chats with Eli Finkel, author of "The All-or-Nothing Marriage." And, a woman's husband suddenly has a glamorous job with lots of fancy perks! She has been the bread-winner all this time, and feels resentful of all the fun her gets to have. How can she overcome these nasty feelings? 206-302-2064 Today’s Lovecast is brought to you by MeUndies.com: High quality, super-comfortable, good looking undies. Get 20% off your first order when you go to . Today’s episode is also brought to you by Blue Apron- the delivery service that sends you fresh ingredients and incredible recipes so you can make fabulous meals at home. Check out this week’s menu and get your first 3 meals free by going to . Thanks to Bombfell for supporting Savage Lovecast. Bombfell is an online personal styling service for men that helps find the right clothes for you. Get $25 off your first purchase at .

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.4

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.1

well, there's nothing you can't ask on Savage Lovecast.

0:24.6

Lee Atwater, you're probably not old enough to know that name, but I am, and I was thinking about Atwater all weekend.

0:33.3

Lee Atwater was a Republican strategist. He worked for Ronald Reagan and the first President George Bush.

0:38.3

And for, I don't know, a dozen years or more, he was the chairman of the Republican National Committee.

0:43.1

So I am not a fan of Lee Otwaters, needless to say.

0:47.1

But I did appreciate Atwater's bluntness and his honesty in an interview he gave to a political scientist named Alexander

0:54.4

Lamas, who was writing a book about racism and American politics. It was an interview that was

0:59.4

supposed to remain forever anonymous. It was supposed to be on background, not quoted, or attributed

1:03.9

to Atwater. But it leaked. Leaks. They're not a new thing. They're a thing that have been going on

1:09.5

forever.

1:16.2

Anyway, here's what Atwater, the man who ran the GOP for a very long time, the man who helped elect Ronald fucking Reagan had to say about the Southern strategy. The GOPs appeal

1:21.4

to racist white southerners who abandoned the Democratic Party in droves after the civil

1:26.5

rights legislation of the 1960s, signed into law by a Democratic president. Atwater, you start out in 1954 by saying, N-Word, N-Ward, N-Wan. Atwater didn't say N-Ward in the interview. I'm going to say N-word here, as I quote him. By 1968, you can't say N-Word anymore, that hurts you, backfires. So you start

1:46.0

saying stuff like forced busing, states rights, and all that stuff. You're getting so abstract now

1:51.1

in the 80s, you're talking about cutting taxes and all these things you're talking about are

1:54.9

totally economic things. And a byproduct of them is that blacks get hurt worse than whites.

2:03.2

You follow me? Because obviously sitting around saying, we want to cut this is much more abstract than even the busing thing and a hell

2:08.8

of a lot more abstract than N-word and word. Outwater gave that interview in 1981 when he was

2:15.9

working in Reagan's White House, crafting

2:18.0

those racist abstractions, winning the votes of white people by advancing economic policies

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