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There's so many shitty things going on in the world right now that you think the shitty people of the world would look at the news and realize that they don't have to go to any extra effort at this moment to make this shitty world any fucking shittier. And they could take

their shitty feet off the fucking shitty gas. But no, there's a new study that came out last week

in the Columbia Journal of Gender and Law by Alexander Brodsky that doesn't document a new

shitty thing, but new dimensions of an old shitty thing. They're calling it

stealthing now. They used to call it taking the condom off during sex without telling the

person that you're fucking. Now it has a name and not just a name, of course, but online

communities where shitty people who are engaged in this deeply shitty practice can find each other and then normalize that practice.

They have created a community where this is okay, where men gather to talk about how taking the condom off during sex without their partner's consent, which instantly transforms what had been a consensual sexual experience into a non-consensual sexual experience,

and therefore assault and rape, is they're right as men, because they are as men supposed to splatter their seed here, there, and everywhere they care to.

And so if a woman or a man requires you to put a condom on, to have intercourse with

them, just put the condom on and then halfway through remove the condom. There are women who

are going to rape crisis centers because they don't know where else to turn, women who have

been stealth. And they have used phrases like rape adjacent to describe

the experience when actually it's pretty much just rape, rabie, what's being done to them. I would

encourage people to read up on this a little bit, Google stealthing and the stories about Brodsky's

report in the Columbia Journal of Gender and Law will pop right up, including some interviews

with Brodsky's all really interesting stuff.

And people should be aware of what's going on, particularly in these online communities where

shitty people gather to normalize being shitty people.

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