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Hey, everybody.

It's Dan, and this is the Dan Savage podcast, and you've got it on your iTunes.

And here we are, and it's going to be great.

I'm going to take a bunch of questions from people who call the Savage Lovecast,

listener hotline, 206, 201, 2720 is the number.

And the way this works, if this is the first time you've joined us,

is I write a sex advice column called Savage Love that runs in a mess in newspapers all over the country

and Canada and the world and Hong Kong.

And people can write me letters at that column and I'll answer them in print.

Or people can phone in with questions at that number, 206-201-2720 and record a question.

And then I answer it on this year podcast that a roving band of tech-savvy youth helped me put together every week.

So that's how it works.

Somebody suggested I walked people through that, so I did.

Now I'm just spinning my tires.

Let's get to the fucking questions.

I'm a 35-year-old bisexual woman.

By a year ago, I haven't dated for a while, but a year ago I moved to a new city where I knew nobody

and met this incredible woman and I, she's kind of out of my league, so I just sort of chalk it up to a schoolgirl crush.

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