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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 47

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 11 September 2007

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

We're fagging out on the Savage Lovecast this week. A gay man is very comfortable with his gayness... he just doesn't like sex all that much. A lesbian wants to experiment with sleeping with a man. Any takers? Dan talks a young man into quitting all the skanky, anonymous sex, and helps another to come out, despite the baleful influence of his nutbag, conservative, religious mother. Happy Birthday Amanda. NO MORE HAPPY BIRTHDAY REQUESTS. Call with any other sort of query: 206-201-2720.

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0:00.0

You're listening to a stranger podcast, www.w.com.

0:09.9

Hey, this is Dan Savage, and you're listening to the Savage Lovecast, the once-a-week, out-loud version of my sex advice column, Savage Love.

0:16.8

The number here, if you want to record a question for a future podcast, 206, 201, 2720.

0:23.1

And you download this podcast every week at www.

0:26.9

www.

0:27.1

The stranger.com slash savage.

0:29.5

It's a beautiful fucking summer day here in Seattle, Washington, home of Savage Labs,

0:34.5

Savage Industries, and Savage Love World Headquarters.

0:37.3

And I have a miserable head cold. So I may be ruder and more impatient and more obnoxious

0:44.5

than usual. And if I am, and if I do or say anything stupid or rude or offensive,

0:49.9

I blame Theraflu.

0:51.8

Hey, Dan. I have a question about non-sex.

0:55.8

I'm not big into sex, I have to say.

0:58.1

I'm a gay man, and I tried to come out since I was 17, but people just refuse to believe

1:05.4

that I was gay.

1:06.2

But I eventually convinced them, not by having sex in front of them like I thought I was

1:09.9

going to have to.

1:10.9

And I just, I'm not really into sex.

1:14.4

I'm like sexually attracted to guys.

1:17.2

Not at all into women, but when it comes to having sex, I don't know if it's just that I get really uncomfortable or I get really bored,

1:23.7

but it seems especially gay men or just like sex is the end of the world and everything we must be

1:30.3

and the you know the thing we must all attain at all costs at any time with everyone we can and i um and

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