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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 249

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 25 July 2011

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

The open-minded father of a 14-year-old lesbian wonders if he should allow her to have sleepovers with her girlfriend.Dan's position on the Mormon poly lifestyle… revealed!Is it intolerable to dump your boyfriend right when he's about to go into surgery?And more ethical dilemmas.206-201-2720Comment on what you heard here at And be sure to get yourself a copy of the Savage Love App for iTunes and Android.

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0:00.0

You're listening to a Stranger podcast, www.com.

0:05.7

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:13.6

while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Mubcast.

0:24.7

Okay, I have a problem.

0:27.2

I am obsessed.

0:29.1

And it's not like, it's not relevant.

0:32.2

Michelle Bachman is surging in the polls, leading in New Hampshire, I believe now, and Iowa.

0:38.4

Michelle Bachman could very well be the nominee.

0:40.8

So I feel that on my little sex podcast, that gives me license to continue to discuss

0:44.7

Michelle Bachman's fabulous husband.

0:49.1

And I'm sorry to do this too.

0:50.4

I've actually been thinking about it a bit.

0:51.9

You know, I saw John Stewart's very funny program last week, a couple weeks ago, where he declared Marcus Bachman to be Center Square

1:00.4

gay, which he said the day after Stephen Colbert called me weapons grade gay, all sorts of

1:07.7

gay out there, some of it more honest than others. Anyway, thinking a little bit

1:13.0

more deeply about Marcus Bachman and the reaction to him and what this is really evidence of

1:17.8

for us culturally. And so I'm going to get a little deep about, I'm going to, I'm going to

1:23.3

burrow in to Marcus Bachman. I'm going to plunge in to Marcus Bachman in a way that I haven't

1:31.6

before. I'm not going to go out on a limb and say no man has plunged into Marcus Bachman before,

1:35.9

but I haven't plunged into him quite late at least. Anyway, keep thinking about this. You know,

1:41.2

Gaydar is real. It used to be people talked about Gaydar and being able to tell when people were gay and people thought that that was just, you know, confirmation bias or, you know, looking for evidence of people's, you know, swishiness or stereotypical gay traits.

1:55.1

But what we know about Gaydar now from the science of Gaydar is that it's real.

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