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info. Hi, I just want to tell you a situation that happened then and wondered if you could help me to know whether or not I am, in fact, being the child that my husband says that I'm being.

It all started last night when after a series of arguments that my husband and I have been having over many things, including sex or the lack thereof.

We actually went out last night.

And when we got back, I came home, I took off my clothes and I was on dressing and my

husband, I looked over and I saw the husband watching me from the bed.

I stood there wearing my strapless bra and my cute little thong and feeling, you know,

all hot and like I was looking good.

Let me point out that I'm about 5'5 and I'm 1.28 and I know what you've said about the gym

and I believe in it, but I'm in my early 40s and my weight has crept up, even though I don't go to the gym five days a week like I should, but I average about two, between two and four sometimes I make five.

But I've been as slim as 118 when I've had ripped abs, et cetera.

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