meta_pixel
Tapesearch Logo
Log in
The Thick Thighs Save Lives Podcast

S9 EP28: Lift the Weights. Drop the Illusion.

The Thick Thighs Save Lives Podcast

Constantly Varied Gear

Health & Fitness

4.9716 Ratings

🗓️ 6 February 2024

⏱️ 57 minutes

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

Is the way that you look more important than the way that you feel? When it comes to lifting: You love it. And look what your body can do! But what happens when that voice in our head we've heard most of our lives about "getting too big" rears its head? In this episode, we discuss the appearance of "bulk" when it comes to lifting and fitness, especially on a woman's body, "because how dare it be there?!"

Kelsea and Rachael think it is important to call out the idea behind "being strong but not looking strong" and emphasize the genuine motivations that drive women to become their best selves, even with all the counterintuitive messaging going on out there. They also address the illusion of control over body composition that has taken a hold of us in the hopes that recognizing it can free us to be limitless in our bodies. Listen to hear advice for those just starting out lifting or picking the weights back up!

(0:00:00) Introduction 

(0:08:35) Lift or Drop

(0:14:13) The question of staying lean while lifting

(0:15:00) The issue of feeling bulky, or avoiding something you love because of how you think it will make you look

(0:18:05) Kelsea’s experience with her doctor and the idea that if you do what someone else does, you’ll look the way they look

(0:17:15) Gym culture and messaging about appearance

(0:22:36) The complexity of your body shape and composition and why trying to change your body shape into someone else’s won’t work

(0:32:20) The benefit of having control of your body, what it can do, and meeting your goals for it

(0:34:59) The different body types that have been popular over time and why bulking in terms of what that means for your own body can happen

(0:39:10) The reality of muscles getting larger

(0:40:15) Water retention in muscles and building muscle faster than fat burns

(0:42:59) Why you have to consider what a person’s been doing for years to look the way they do, not just what they’re doing right now

(0:45:27) Having patience with an activity and waiting for the payoff

(0:47:17) The pitfalls of placing aesthetics over your body feeling and functioning better

(0:48:11) Why men, as well as women, are conditioned to prioritize aesthetics

(0:54:10) Taking a new perspective on your body type and range, instead of envying others.

CVG Related Links:

 

The Genetic Basis of Body Shape: Lessons from Mirror Twins and High-Definition Digital Photography | Journal of Ethics

Genetics of human body size and shape: body proportions and indices



Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0

The untrained muscles are pushing back against their clothes, against massage therapists.

0:07.9

Like, can you relax your shoulders? I'm like, that's as relaxed as they get.

0:13.2

Every massage therapist is like, yeah. Like, when you massage softer muscles that aren't well

0:20.7

developed, you know what that feels like and then you

0:23.0

touch someone who does some weight training you're like this baby's fighting back the big question

0:34.1

is this in a world of fake Instagram models and bad diets, how do real people achieve their fitness

0:43.9

goals?

0:45.7

We are an army of hardworking women changing their lives through fitness and health.

0:52.5

Wherever you are at on your journey, we have the answers to how to make working out

0:57.9

and eating well a part of your life.

1:01.6

Join us in changing the dialogue for women everywhere.

1:05.5

Welcome to the Thick Thighs Save Lives Podcast.

1:10.7

Hi, everyone, and welcome back to the Thick Thigh Save Lives Podcast.

1:14.5

Hi everyone and welcome back to the Thick Thigh Save Lives podcast. I'm Kelsey.

1:19.9

Hey girls. I'm Rachel. Welcome back to the podcast. Thank you for joining us for another week.

1:25.4

And I'm sorry, I showed up like this. This is how I showed up today.

1:29.1

I woke up like this. No, it's not one of those situations.

1:38.0

It's not one of those. I think it, honestly, I think it's great because from a bird's eye,

1:45.0

we had it really together in our last podcast. I feel like everyone showed up really pulled together.

1:47.0

You can't do that two times in a row.

1:47.5

No.

1:48.5

That's not realistic.

...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Constantly Varied Gear, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Constantly Varied Gear and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.

Copyright © Tapesearch 2025.