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Ex-Wives Undercover: Liars, Cheaters & Love Cons

S6E10 Holier Than Thou, Pt. 2 of 3

Ex-Wives Undercover: Liars, Cheaters & Love Cons

Double A Productions

Society & Culture, True Crime, Relationships

3.9763 Ratings

🗓️ 29 April 2025

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Summary

In this raw and emotional episode, Abby takes us deeper into her harrowing journey. What started as one magical night with a charming stranger soon unraveled the web of control, cult-like oppression, and emotional abuse that defined her marriage to Bobby. From secret phone calls and a fleeting romance to financial manipulation and being spiritually silenced, Abby reveals the impossible decisions she had to make to reclaim her power. 🔊 What You’ll Hear in This Episode: The night Abby met someone who made her feel seen again — for the first time in ten years. The moment Abby realized her husband had drained their joint bank account — leaving her with just 49 cents. Physical and emotional abuse that escalated until she was literally barricaded in her own closet. Bobby’s twisted logic: lying “in the name of God” and using religion to excuse manipulation. A disturbing psychiatric showdown after Bobby demanded mental health evaluations for them both. Cult leaders, marriage “reconciliation,” and the breaking point that led to Abby filing for divorce. 💔 This is a story of unimaginable control and the courage it takes to leave—not just a man, but a deeply entrenched system designed to keep women silent. Resources & Links: 👉 Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook 👉 Join our private Facebook group for more exclusive discussions 👉 Support us on Patreon for bonus content 🔔 Subscribe, rate & review to help more people discover survivor stories like Abby’s. 💌 Got a story to share? Visit exwivesundercover.com or DM us on Instagram @exwivesundercover. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:30.1

Previously on ex-wives undercover.

0:33.2

I met Bobby through a mutual friend, you know, on paper.

0:37.6

I was like, oh, this sounds great.

0:39.4

We're at this beautiful vineyard in an art gallery overlooking the vineyard, and he turned

0:45.8

around and proposed.

0:47.4

He would just light into me, and you're not doing this right, and you're not, you're not

0:52.5

being godly enough, you're not doing, you know, not being this're not being godly enough you're not doing you know not being this not being that and now i see it as him asserting his dominance at the

0:59.8

beginning like trying to get a hold of me and control of me and to make sure i understood where

1:05.2

i fit in and what i should be doing and all these things i felt like i couldn't be myself i was

1:10.1

always trying to i I was trying to

1:11.8

be what he wanted me to be. And that, that took hold really quick where I was like, okay, I want to be

1:18.8

what you want me to be instead of like, hey, this is the person you married and why are you changing me?

1:25.1

It was always me. You need to do this. You need to do this.

1:28.3

If I rolled my eyes because I didn't have an orgasm, it was like, you rolled your eyes.

1:33.3

You rolled your eyes at me and then I would get like the beat down of my life.

1:37.3

I used going out in any way the grocery store, the gym, going for walks, going out to dinner with friends,

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