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Heart of Dating

S6 Ep120: Sexuality, Modesty, and Purity Culture with Kat Harris

Heart of Dating

That Sounds Fun Network

Relationships, Society & Culture, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.82.1K Ratings

🗓️ 21 April 2021

⏱️ 64 minutes

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Summary

Kat's episode on her new book "Sexless in the City" discusses toxic purity culture, modesty, masturbation, and sexuality and sexual desire. Kat is a Brooklyn-based online educator, digital content creator, female empowerment advocate. Her vision is for women to know their beauty, identity and value. She has a B.S. in Biblical Studies from Dallas Baptist University and is Co-Founder of the online publication The Refined Woman and host of The Refined Collective Podcast.  Today, we are celebrating the release of her brand new book “Sexless in the City:A Sometimes Sassy, Sometimes Painful, Always Honest Look at Dating, Desire, and Sex” In this episode, Kat and Kait discuss all things sexual desire, purity culture, and even modesty! Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness . . . . .  A quick thank you to some of our friends! Faithful Counseling: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, Christian therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to http://getfaithful.com/heartofdating Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single? We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission. http://compassion.com/heartofdating Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Heart of Dating Podcast.

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Hey, it's Kate.

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I'm so glad you could join us this week as we try to entangle the ever so ambiguous

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world of dating as a Christian.

0:13.0

Over here on Heart of Dating, we get real as we answer some tough questions

0:17.0

and uncover transformative ways to approach Christian dating.

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Oh, and you better believe we have some laughs along the way,

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because last time I checked, the struggle is hashtag real.

0:28.0

You want to say it?

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Now, let's get to the heart of the matter.

0:36.0

Why hello there and lovely people.

0:39.0

Welcome back to the Heart of Dating Podcast.

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I'm so excited for this episode today, because you guys,

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we are taking a break from our heart of dating select episodes

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because I specifically could not wait any longer to share the episode

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that we have for you today.

0:56.0

My amazing girlfriend, Kat Harris, has been working on a book for the last few years,

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and I have personally had the honor and privilege of walking next to her

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as I've watched her pour her heart and soul into writing these words

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that debunk purity culture, that dive into hard, nuanced,

1:13.0

gray dialogues of sexuality, sexual desire, modesty, feminism,

1:19.0

masturbation, physical boundaries, and even what to do with your sexual desire

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