S5 Ep56: He/Her/Daddy
Inner Hoe Uprising
InnerHoeUprising
4.9 • 857 Ratings
🗓️ 13 November 2019
⏱️ 112 minutes
🧾️ Download transcript
Summary
Filmmaker, model, and Youtuber Ari Fitz joins IHU to talk about their gender journey to coming out as non-binary, growing up queer, sex on reality TV, navigating accountability on twitter ad much more!
Bae(s) of The Week: INNER HOE UPRISING!
Hoe(s) of the Week: Lucky W, Whitney, Tamika C.
Self Care Tips: Have monthly check in’s with yourself and your partner(s)
Cute Date Idea: Make weighted blankets together
Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Ari Fitz joins IHU to discuss their gender journey. Points of discussion include:
Processing ones gender and sexual identity in childhood, androgyny, harmful queer archetypes, being kind to yourself, being on reality TV whilst Black and queer, f*cking on national TV, growing and learning in the public eye, coming to the conclusion that you’re non-binary, coming out on the internet, getting canceled on Twitter, navigating hurt, harm and accountability on the internet, attraction, navigating sexual identity while non-binary, internalized femme and queerphobia in masc on masc relationships, touch-me-nots and navigating masculinity in sexual practices, fashion brands who care about queer folks, masculinity and pregnancy, telling queer stories as a filmmaker, MTV’s The Real World, Chappelle’s Show, Are You the One, YouTube, and much more!
HASHTAGS
Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.
SPONSOR(S)
Head to rooted.nyc/ihu and use the code IHU to receive 15% off your first order
Make sensuality a part of your daily self care routine. Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/IHU
RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES
Bad Bitch Affirmations: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/bad-bitch-affirmations-tickets-76587381921
Ari’s Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/itsarifitz
My Mama Wears Timbs: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aRgTLb5EbiQ
Bubbles: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gkn9eJa1oXk
Joy Practice Dance Class: Wepreacticejoy.com
WEBSITE
InnerHoeUprising.com
PAY A HOE
Paypal.me/innerhoe
https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising
WRITE IN EMAIL
ihupodcast@gmail.com
SPEAKING GIGS
Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show? We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com
MUSIC
Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal
https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by
Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa
End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co
ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY
Reality Show Connoisseur Sam
SOCIAL MEDIA
Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A
Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin
Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @rebbyornot |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive
Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd Travel IG: @carmensamdiego
Ari | Twitter: @itzarifitz
Joy Practice: @JoyPractice
#black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #nonbinary #gendernovember #gender
Transcript
Click on a timestamp to play from that location
| 0:00.0 | This episode of the Inner Hole Uprising is podcast about sex love and dating from the |
| 0:19.9 | perspective of me Sam one black non-monogamous pansexual feminist ho who lives in New York City and |
| 0:26.4 | And me, Rodeka, a fat black pansexual flight attendant who probably cries too much and uses humor to distract everyone from the fact that we are currently in the darkest timeline. |
| 0:35.4 | The weirdest timeline. The weirdest, the darkest, the scariest, it's a lot. |
| 0:40.9 | It's a lot going on in the streets. |
| 0:43.0 | We have two types of episodes on this show. |
| 0:45.0 | They are group episodes and interview episodes. |
| 0:48.0 | On interview episodes, I say I'm the principal host, and one of my lovely rotating co-host talks to folks with insightful perspectives on sex, love, |
| 0:55.7 | dating, gender, and or race. In our group episodes, all the hosts come together to chat about |
| 1:00.8 | sexual current events in the world, our lives, and yours. This episode is an interview |
| 1:05.6 | episode and it is the first installment or like first and a half installment of our Gender November series. |
| 1:12.4 | In Gender November we are going of our gender November series. |
| 1:13.0 | In gender November we are going to be exploring sex love and dating as it intersects with genders that appear outside of the Sis Head binary. Yeah. Isn't that cool? It's awesome. It's awesome. Yeah. And on this episode we are having someone who I find so incredibly dope and I think you guys will find them so incredibly |
| 1:34.4 | dope as well. We are going to have Ari Fitz on the show. They are a |
| 1:38.4 | youtuber, they are a former reality TV star, they are a filmmaker, they are a model. a |
| 1:43.0 | former reality TV star, they are a filmmaker, they are a model, |
| 1:45.0 | and they are just awesome. |
| 1:46.0 | They're everything. |
| 1:47.0 | Yeah, so we're going to talk to them about their gender journey. |
| 1:50.0 | I kind of like that gender journey. |
| 1:52.0 | Yeah, it's, you like words that sound I like alliterations there you go |
| 1:56.9 | But before we get into that we'll be doing a couple of short segments and they are Bay of the week where we talk about people who we find attractive |
... |
Please login to see the full transcript.
Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from InnerHoeUprising, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.
Generated transcripts are the property of InnerHoeUprising and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.
Copyright © Tapesearch 2026.