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Strictly Stalking

S4 / E167 Dangerous Living: Stalking Melody

Strictly Stalking

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True Crime, Talk Radio

4.22.5K Ratings

🗓️ 28 March 2023

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

Melody is a single mom who met her stalker on an online dating site. After quickly starting a relationship, she noticed red flags like love bombing, control issues, and jealousy. They moved in together, and Melody discovered he knew details of her private phone conversations and where she went throughout the day. He accused Melody of cheating, showed up at her job, and the relationship became toxic and abusive. Melody tried to kick him out of her house, but he threatened her and wouldn’t leave. When she got the police involved, Melody learned about his past stalking and violent behavior with other women. PODCAST LINKS: Code Name Siren: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/code-name-siren/id1663966966 DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US [email protected] Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000 SPONSORED BY: Angi - Download the free Angi mobile app today or visit Angi.com The Boyfriend Bikini theboyfriendbikini.com www.instagram.com/theboyfriendbikini/

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0:00.0

I thought I texted my mom to call 911, but apparently what I texted was gibberish and didn't make any sense whatsoever.

0:07.0

And when I started to kind of come out of it, I looked at him and I said, you're poisoning me.

0:11.0

And he just looked at me and smiled the most scary smile that you could ever imagine.

0:18.0

I don't remember the rest of the night. I think I passed out.

0:31.0

I'm Jamie Beebe. And I'm Jake Debtula. On today's episode of Strictly Stock and We're Chanting with Melody, who met her stalker while online dating.

0:45.0

He seemed nice, but she did notice red flags like glove bombing, moving too fast, control issues, and jealousy.

0:51.0

After he moved in, Melody noticed that he knew details of her private phone conversations and knew where she went throughout the day.

0:58.0

He often accused her of cheating, showed up at her job, and the relationship became toxic and abusive.

1:04.0

Melody tried to kick him out of her house, but he threatened her and wouldn't leave.

1:08.0

After she got the police involved, Melody was the one to leave, and she also learned about his past stalking and abusive behaviors.

1:14.0

Melody, thank you for joining us today.

1:16.0

Thank you for having me.

1:18.0

What do you want us to talk about growing up?

1:20.0

I grew up in a pretty small town in New Jersey. My grade school was 60 kids from kindergarten to eighth grade, so very small town.

1:32.0

My parents kind of had a toxic relationship, so I think that's what kind of molded me.

1:38.0

But otherwise I had a pretty good childhood.

1:41.0

What was life like after high school for you?

1:44.0

After high school, I became a parent pretty young, so I worked a lot and just raising my young child. I was a single mom, so it was a lot of work and a lot of stress.

1:58.0

But it was great. We pretty much grew up together.

2:02.0

How old were you when you had your first child?

2:06.0

20.

2:07.0

Being a single mom, when did you decide to start dating again?

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