His best friend and his best friend's girlfriend reached out to me and they were like,

you're not safe, you need to understand he is on steroids, he has weapons,

you are in danger, you need to not be at your home because we think that he's coming there.

I'm Jamie BB and I'm Jake Debtula. On today's episode of Strictly Stock and we're speaking

with Jess who's being stalked by an ex-boyfriend. When Jess was too busy with work, she had to put a

relationship on the back burner but her boyfriend couldn't accept it. He became jealous and insecure,

questioned her about their relationship, went through her phone and didn't wonder to talk to any of her

guy friends. Jess was overwhelmed by his constant harassment and she ended the relationship. Her

boyfriend tried desperately to win her back but when she didn't respond to him he threatened suicide.

Jess called the police but they determined he was not a threat to himself and he guilted her into taking him back.

He continued to be obsessive and controlling so when things didn't change Jess ended it for good and the

stalking began the day they broke up. Her ex showed up at her house, called and texted her continuously and spammed her

online. His friend told Jess that he was manic, on steroids and had access to weapons and was dangerous.

She called the police when he showed up at her house and was arrested for domestic violence and stalking but that

hasn't stopped him and Jess is still being stalked to this day. Jess thank you for joining us.

Yeah of course thank you guys for having me. Why don't you tell us a little bit about your childhood growing up?

Well I think my childhood was pretty basic, not too eventful. I grew up in San Diego, California. Super wonderful

there. I really did not like the weather though. We got no seasons. You don't have the changing of the

leaves, you don't have winter. That was a big no go and a big reason why I moved for college out to Colorado.

How was college for you? What was the dating life like there?

Honestly, kind of terrible. I struggled a lot with being alone in a dorm.

So my first semester there, my roommate actually went to live with her boyfriend. So I was alone the entire time and it was,

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