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S2 Ep4: Your People Pleasing is Making you the Bad Guy

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Nutrition, Self-improvement, Education, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Alternative Health

4.9714 Ratings

🗓️ 20 November 2023

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

86% of listeners said they were a people pleaser - and Syd admits she is a recovering one. Today's episode talks about all the reasons why we people please & what we REALLY mean to say. How do we stop people pleasing? Why do we care so much about the perception of others over what our values/morals/capacity is? From mother in laws to friends; coworkers to people we don't know - we've all been guilty agreeing with something we don't believe & not standing up for ourselves to avoid conflict. F THE DRAMA & START PUTTING YOURSELF FIRST.

Syd talks why she was a people pleaser and 8 tips she implements to move away from being a constant people pleasure. Especially with the holiday's coming up, this is SO IMPORTANT. Your people pleasing habits are making you the bad guy & here is why!

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I've got my coffee. It's going to be a good morning. We're going to record.

0:35.6

I've been drinking a lot of decaf coffee. And if you're somebody who literally grew up loving lattes like going to Starbucks, I's going to be a good morning. We're going to record. I've been drinking a lot of decaf coffee.

0:42.1

And if you're somebody who literally grew up loving lattes, like going to Starbucks, also can't even believe I drank a Frappuccino. I'm turning in such an adult. I'm like anything sweet,

0:47.5

I'm like nasty. I don't know why. Don't even like Halloween candy. Like, yes, I love a butterfingers. Don't get me wrong. But something happened to my

0:54.8

taste buds. I don't know what it is, but I can't do sweet anymore. Like even sometimes I'll get a latte

0:59.6

and I'm like, whoa. And usually, even flashback like two years ago when I would get a latte with my

1:04.8

grandma every time we hung out, we'd literally get brevet milk, which is like half and half. And then like extra pumps of sugar-free

1:11.1

vanilla. I don't know how I drank that. I really don't. Hold on. Coffee break.

1:17.5

That's good. Very good. What are we talking about today? Welcome. Welcome back, by the way,

1:22.4

episode four. I can't believe we're doing it. It's a Sunday morning for me. I'm just hanging out, honestly, and I don't

1:28.0

give a shit that I didn't dress up. I comb my hair. I got out of bed. I am hyped to be here. I put

1:32.5

on a little makeup. But we're talking about something that is near and dear to me today, like something

1:38.1

that I struggled with so badly long ago. And honestly, yesterday and the day before that. And I feel like I was so much worse when I

1:46.6

was growing up. And now I'm so much better, but I still catch myself doing these things that I need

1:52.0

to be better at. And that's people pleasing. People pleasing is tough, especially around the

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