S2 Ep115: Soul Ties and Seeking Sacred Love: B. Simone on Chastity and Demisexuality

Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram

LOVERS by shan

Sexuality, Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness

5 • 5.5K Ratings

🗓️ 16 April 2025

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

Are you ready to dive deep into the complexities of love, faith, and identity? In this thought-provoking episode, Shan Boodram sits down with B. Simone to discuss the transformative journey of embracing chastity, understanding soul ties, and exploring the nuances of identity and connection.
While B. Simone does not identify as demisexual, Shan suggests the possibility during their candid conversation, sparking an insightful dialogue about emotional intimacy and sexual attraction. This episode unpacks key topics like:
✨ What You’ll Learn:

Demisexuality: A sexual orientation where someone experiences sexual attraction only after forming a strong emotional bond.
Soul Ties: A deep, often spiritual connection that binds two people, sometimes through shared experiences or intimacy.
Chastity: A lifestyle or mindset of aligning one’s sexual behavior and thoughts with personal, moral, or spiritual values, which may or may not involve abstinence.

Together, Shan and B. Simone explore how devotion to faith, self-love, and personal growth can shape intimate relationships and redefine what it means to truly connect with others.
Whether you’re curious about demisexuality, seeking clarity on soul ties, or inspired by the intersection of spirituality and sexuality, this episode is packed with insights that will leave you reflecting on your own path to sacred love.
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0:00.0	This is how good God is.
0:01.0	I'm sitting in the airport.
0:02.0	I got my purse.
0:03.0	It's right in there.
0:04.0	And a man walks up to me.
0:05.0	He's like, what's in your purse?
0:07.0	What's that pink thing?
0:08.0	And I pulled it out and it was my Bible.
0:10.0	But this is five minutes after I'm questioning my faith.
0:14.0	I weaked for almost two hours and I understood that I would serve Jesus Christ for the rest of my life.
0:20.0	I'm very fascinated by your celibacy journey.
0:22.6	So it's been two years.
0:23.6	I don't want to carry anybody's baggage, and I've done it in friendships.
0:27.6	And we're not even, I'm not even having sex with my friends.
0:29.6	Can you take me back to the last time you had sex?
0:31.6	I never had an orgasm before him.
0:33.6	And then I was like, oh my God. And this was like, I was 30, 30. But by yourself?
0:38.6	No, I had never masturbated. What were you doing this whole time?
0:43.1	Having sex with people I like, from age 19 to 33, I made a list one day. I said, y'all got to get up
0:48.3	off me. These niggas got to go. I ain't going to tell you how many names was on it. I had to flip your page.
0:57.8	You know the science behind it, the endorphins that go off,
1:01.2	when you have your orgasm and all the things that are connecting me to this person.
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