S14E18: Putting Yourself First w/ The Confident Collective

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 22 June 2022

⏱️ 74 minutes

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What's the difference between self-care, self-sacrifice, and selfishness, when it comes to dating & relationships?We're chatting with Raeann and Kristina from the Confident Collective about the balance of not compromising your own needs while compromising for others. We discuss the importance of taking care of yourself through all stages from early dating to having children, why it backfires to bend over backwards for someone else, and how to still put your loved ones first without losing yourself. Follow Kristina & Raeann @confidentcollective and listen to their podcast The Confident Collective Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: Filter Off: Try the new dating app where you date people not profiles and receive 5 extra daily picks at https://www.getfilteroff.com/ with the code DATEME Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the
0:04.8	Huffington Post calls one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each
0:09.5	episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper
0:15.3	fetishes, and first moves to first loves.
0:17.8	I'm your host, U.S.U.
0:19.4	Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.
0:22.0	You also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Kraft chick
0:25.2	as we explore this crazy datable world.
0:28.1	Hi datables, welcome to another episode of the dateable
0:35.2	podcast. If you are new to our podcast, if you're looking for
0:39.5	dating stories, dating advice, just sharing in the dating journey you're in the right place so good
0:46.4	but if you're looking for I don't know economic data I don't even, I don't know what that podcast will look like.
0:56.5	Hey, you never know, you never know.
0:58.7	There's a lot of supply and demand that goes into dating, right?
1:01.7	There is.
1:02.3	And we are in a love recession and a sex recession so in a real recession too
1:08.9	you're in the right place either way, whether you're looking for data or for
1:14.3	dating. You get all your life advice here. It's good to go. Yeah. We'll tell you
1:19.9	where to invest your time in terms of dating. Yes, exactly. And invested yourself is what we're going to talk about today. You know, I'm really excited that we're doing this topic. We did a cross collabs with other podcasts. So we did one with confident collective
1:37.0	podcasts. We were on their podcast a couple weeks ago we talked about you know
1:42.2	modern dating because of course that's what we're going to talk about.
1:45.6	But it was a really great episode. I feel like they had some really interesting takes.
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