Jeff did something super jacked up to me at dinner the other night.

And I'm pretty sure that it's like against the unspoken rules of marriage.

I am on the hunt for something so basic and I have no clue where to find it,

but guaranteed everybody listening has this in their house.

And more than half of you are doing one thing,

half of Americans doing this one thing that is either really,

really smart or really, really stupid.

All that and more on today's show.

You are an outsider living in gratitude,

finding the positive and every experience and helping other people do the same.

Welcome to the upside.

With Kelly and Jeff.

If this is your first episode of the upside,

welcome, if you've been here before, welcome back today is Tuesday,

September 20th. My name is Jeff dollar. And today I am grateful that Ellie likes being tidy.

Like when we read books at night, she will put after we read a book,

if she wants to read another one, she'll take the one back to the basket and bring the other one out.

And that makes me happy because I am not that way.

I'm like, I'll clean the books up in the morning.

She's like, we need to put this book away before we read this book.

It's funny that you said that because I was about to say she is your child.

She likes order.

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