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Heart of Dating

S11: Men's Minisodes 23: Main Character Syndrome

Heart of Dating

That Sounds Fun Network

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Society & Culture, Relationships

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🗓️ 28 July 2023

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

Join JJ as he dives into the first red flag of the season, main character syndrome and how that can surface in dating.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

What's up fam? This is JJ. We are back with season three of the mini-mansoed Fridays. Let's

0:09.1

go. I cannot believe Kate has let us go on this long. It's been so fun. I hope you guys really

0:15.7

enjoy that one-two punch of the week. We'd like to get nitty gritty on Wednesdays with Kate

0:21.2

and then hopefully these. Well, what's ironic is last season we said these are sure to be fun and

0:27.3

and then you guys know we went there. We got thick and heavy with scripture. We talked about

0:32.4

headship. We talked about submission. We talked about some of these really hard topics

0:37.6

from a male's point of view, which I actually really enjoy. Some of these things, if you grow up,

0:42.1

you know, with any kind of Christian household, you know, we're taught things and sometimes we never

0:48.4

look, look them up. We don't really know why we believe the things we believe. And so sometimes

0:56.0

it's really awesome to just get under the hood of our spiritual life or beliefs and ask why do I

1:01.0

believe this is this true? What was the teaching at the time actually saying and how does that apply

1:06.5

to my life today? So this whole season we are doing red flags, which is super fun because as we've

1:14.8

talked about, people use red flags and they use deal breakers interchangeably. The hard reality

1:21.6

of life is that I have to look into the mirror and admit one thing. I have red flags too. Why?

1:27.0

Because I'm a human being and red flags are really just these are things in my character. These

1:32.1

are things in my personality. These are just tendencies where I fail. Okay, I have a great

1:37.6

half fail. And what I love about that from a spiritual lens is just because this is my weakness

1:43.2

doesn't mean it just has to be my weakness. And for me, you know, the second you start thinking

1:47.3

about weakness and second Corinthians 12, it's hey, guess what? When it comes to my weakness,

1:53.6

what I used to be ashamed about, what I used to be terrible at, guess what? I rely on Christ,

1:59.8

His grace is sufficient in my weakness. And therefore I boast all the more in my weakness.

2:04.8

I'm totally okay being transparent and vulnerable about my weakness, my ability to be distracted,

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