What's up fam? This is J.J. with the mini mansods. I think this is episode six. Yeah, it's episode six. This has been a sick season. We have loved it. It's been super, super lifegiving giving we've been a little bit more blunt you know I've talked to the men in the audience with you know really what

I this is rare I think authority in people's lives is

earned it's built over a lot of trust I think with men one thing that happens is

we have all the direction and instruction and you should do this and don't do this in the whole entire world

but there's no trust there's no rapport

sometimes we really wonder does this person care about me, right? And I think what I love to do with specifically the men is just know that, hey, I am for you, I am for you I am with you I want to see you succeed I want to see you

in godly dating godly relationships and ultimately in a godly marriage that's abounding with intimacy,

whether it's sexually, spiritually, emotionally, it's a really, really safe place

for you and your partner. I just think that has been the

entire goal of these mansoe is that men finally have a place to come where

they can learn from not another youth pastor, not a dude who's been married

for 30 years and met his wife at church camp at 19 years old.

Like I've been very, very much in the shoes of a single man.

And more importantly, I made a lot of mistakes.

And I approached things in a lot of the wrong ways.

So the kind of foundation of these man, mansoads is that, hey, I'm just like, just like you, and just maybe six months ahead you know I've made

mistakes that you'll probably make this week next week and the next few months let me

just tell you about them real quick so that I can equip you and serve you well and this is one

actually where I would say I probably had a little bit more of just a ruthless

attitude for me in the way I conducted my friendships and

relationships. The title of this episode is female friendships and

dating of relationships. This is an episode for men, right? And of course we know there's a lot of women

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