What's up fam? This is JJ with the mini mainsoats. I think this is episode six. Yeah, it's episode six.

This has been a sick season. We have loved it. It's been super, super life giving. We've been a little

bit more blunt. You know, I've talked to the men in the audience with, you know, really what I,

this is rare. I think authority and people's lives is earned. It's built over a lot of trust. I

think with men, one thing that happens is we have all the direction and instruction and you should

do this and don't do this in the whole entire world. But there's no trust. There's no rapport.

Sometimes we, we really wonder does this person care about me? Right? And I think what I love to do

with specifically the man is just know that, Hey, I am for you. I am with you. I want to see you

succeed. I want to see you in godly dating godly relationships and ultimately in a godly

marriage that's a bounding with intimacy, whether it's sexually, spiritually, emotionally, it's a

really, really safe place for you and your partner. I just think that has been the entire goal of

these mansoats is that men finally have a place to come where they can learn from not another

youth pastor, not a dude who's been married for 30 years and met his wife at church camp at 19

years old. Like I've been very, very much in the shoes of a single man. And more importantly,

I made a lot of mistakes and I approached things in a lot of the wrong way. So the kind of foundation

of these man mansoats is that, Hey, I'm just like, just like you and just maybe six months ahead.

You know, I made mistakes that you'll probably make this week next week and the next few months.

Let me just tell you about them real quick so that I can equip you and serve you well. And this is one

actually where I would say I probably had a little bit more of just a ruthless attitude for me

in the way I conducted my friendships and relationships. The title of this episode is female

friendships and dating and relationships. This is an episode for men, right? And of course,

we know there's a lot of women sneaking in here. You guys are welcome. These are mansoats. Okay.

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