She said, I used to think that I wasn't good enough. Now I know I am too good for most of the men.

I wanted to read this one because I don't think that this is self-love. I think that this is self-soothing.

Like a pacifier or a binky, if you're in America, is not a meal. It's not milk that you're putting in a baby's mouth.

It's something that provides opportunity for suckling, but there's like no actual substantial

nourishment there. And whenever we do that, when we use self-love as a way to elevate

ourselves above other people, that's not real love because I think real love is

just seeing the good in everybody. And when you can genuinely see the good in yourself,

you can see it in everybody else. If you're still classifying, some people is not good enough,

some people is bad, and you are good, you are still leaving the door open for you to be a bad person.

You're leaving the door open for you don't have to be good enough because the only thing that's stopping you from being them is one decision, one action.

That's so fickle. Like love shouldn't feel that fickle. It shouldn't feel moment to moment decision to decision.

We again can have different preferences. But the idea that like, well, I'm above you now.

I'm better than you now because I'm this person. Again, you just need to make one wrong decision and then you're back to being that person.

And now do you have to

degrade yourself whether you degraded others that doesn't sound fun so i i'd say dust yourself off

and try again no shade but kind of shady right lovers and friends love's and friends i'm gonna take you on a trip

baby i don't pretend i say lovers and friends um i'm going to take you on a trip, baby. I don't pretend. I say, lovers and friends.

I'm going to hold you down down to the end.

I say,

Hi there, lovers and friends.

Welcome to the podcast.

My name is Shambudram.

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