S1 Ep89: CONFESSIONS FROM A SEX COACH FOR MEN ft. Alex Grendi

Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram

LOVERS by shan

Sexuality, Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness

5 • 5.5K Ratings

🗓️ 20 September 2023

⏱️ 70 minutes

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Summary

Here’s what men don't tell you about how to be a better intimate partner…How do you get your man to go from bland to blazing in bed? Why should men stop watching porn? How do you encourage your man to ask for what he wants in bed? Are you missing out on pleasure by not using breathwork? Alex Grendi is a certified men’s sex coach who specializes in performance anxiety and erectile dysfunction. He’s here to talk about the importance of asking for what you want in the bedroom AND the struggle (especially for men) of figuring out what that REALLY is. Some of you have mentioned that you like the longer solo interview episodes and that’s what this is.

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0:00.0	If you have sex specifically with men, you need to listen to this episode, but be warned, our guest may not always tell you what you want to hear.
0:09.2	Just like I think you would understand why every man wants to have this big butt or big breasts.
0:14.7	Why wouldn't someone want to experience it?
0:17.5	So my invitation to all these women is like, how could you turn this into something together
0:25.0	as opposed to he's doing this against me? It's comparison. It's like, how do you come into harmony
0:32.6	with this? How can we play with this? How can we make the, how can you accept him, have compassion or understanding that that is also attractive and desirable?
0:43.2	But trust and believe there is also plenty of parts that you are going to be blasting in hopes that your partner or your ex catches wind of.
0:51.7	What would you have defined good sex as 10 years ago or so?
0:56.8	And how do you define it today?
0:58.3	10 years ago would have been just like fast and hard in a number of different positions for like 15 to 20 minutes and giving my partner an orgasm and then me ejaculating.
1:11.5	That was like, yeah, I wanted to perform like a porn star.
1:15.8	I wanted to look exactly how they looked.
1:18.3	And now I want to be closer to my partner.
1:21.1	I want to have so much deeper intimacy.
1:24.1	I want to experience full body pleasure.
1:26.2	I want to explore non-penstrived sex sometimes.
1:29.3	Before it's like how can I appear to be good at sex versus what do I want and what
1:36.3	does my partner want?
1:37.3	Male sex coach Alex Grundy is back on lovers and friends for a third time.
1:41.3	Now usually he is the expert at the end of the episode,
1:45.0	but we decided to turn the cameras on, I have a conversation to see what happened when I gave
1:48.8	this man the full floor. And let me tell you, he can dance. Get comfortable. This is a
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