Well, question, are you a freak?

No.

No!

I think I'm a normal human.

I'm like, whatever the spectrum is, I'm like, put me in the middle.

That's how I like to think of myself.

You know what I think of the definition of a freak is?

If someone said, picture me having sex, what do you see?

And if I can describe it and get it pretty accurate, you're not a freak.

The term freak has gotten like, at one point in time, it had this negative connotation,

and now everybody wants to wear it as a badge of honor. But just know what comes with the title

or the label of freak. People are automatically going to assume that you are open.

You cannot fake it. You can't fake being a freak.

Lovers and friends. I'm going to take you on a trip, baby. I don't pretend. I said, lovers and friends.

I'm going on, lovers and friends.

Welcome to the podcast called The Same Damn Thing.

I just referred to you as my name is Shambudram.

I'm a public-based sex and relationship expert who's been in this space for 15 years doing the good work, spreading the love, spreading the words, learning along the way. But interesting fact,

a little shambo dram trivia, I have actually been on the internet for 20 years, maybe like 21

to be exact. And before I was a sexologist and a sex educator, I was a blogger.

I used to have a blog with Andrea Lewis, who at the time was famous for her role on Cadet

Kelly and DeGrassey.

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