S1 Ep51: I'm Concerned About Our Love After Kids Ft. Jared Brady

LOVERS by shan

Sexuality, Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness

5 • 5.5K Ratings

🗓️ 16 November 2022

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, I sit down with my lover, my partner, my baby daddy, my everything, Jared. This conversation gets really real. We love our kids but do we still like our life? Do we still like each other?

This time in Colombia with my family has sprung up a lot of 'aha' moments: some good and others not so good.

Life after kids is unpredictable and it can sometimes feel like that spark is lost. Which takes me to asking him an important question that to be honest made me nervous.

"Are you happy?"

It gets raw, real and made me realize what I need to do more of..

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0:00.0	How has the addition of a second baby changed our relationship?
0:03.0	I don't feel like us as a partnership, as a unit, really get time.
0:11.0	We don't even sleep in the same bed anymore.
0:13.0	And so there is a disconnect that you naturally start to feel.
0:18.0	And sometimes you get to a place where like, is there something wrong with me?
0:21.7	Does she still love me? Does she still, is she still interested in me? Do you think the fire
0:26.2	between us is not as bright, not as hot?
0:32.3	Lovers and friends. I'm going to take you on a trip, baby. I don't pretend. I said, Lovers and friends.
0:39.3	I'm gonna hold you down down to the end, I said.
0:42.3	Right, you come here.
0:46.3	Don't, yeah, you can't touch the cheese.
0:48.3	Is correct.
0:49.3	All right.
0:50.3	Right, you come here.
0:51.3	What's going on, lovers and friends?
0:53.3	Welcome to Lovers and Friends, a podcast, a podcast about sex, love, relationships, and life.
0:59.4	And life right now is exactly how it sounds and what it looks like.
1:03.3	It's hectic.
1:04.9	So I am joined here, who I was joined, but he had to get up and leave.
1:09.4	I'm joined by my husband, Jared Brady, who's going to be my guest of honor.
1:13.2	And Ryu Brady, who is with us as a default because the person that we have helping us out here for child care is sick with norovirus.
1:22.9	So we have to improvise and do this podcast on the fly.
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