S1 Ep103: Get the Fairytale You Need - Despite What You Think You Want feat. Damona Hoffman

Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram

LOVERS by shan

Sexuality, Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness

5 • 5.5K Ratings

🗓️ 20 December 2023

⏱️ 68 minutes

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FUCK the fairytale! How does that land on you? Does it make you go FUCK YES we need to be realistic about love OR does it make you go FUCK NO I desire the fairytale and that’s what I’ll get. Well when dating coach Damona Hoffman suggests you F the Fairytale, she kinda wants you to feel both. Tired of the same old dating game and ready to find real, lasting love? Join us in this episode of FUCK the Fairytale as we explore what a true fairytale relationship looks like with expert dating coach Damona Hoffman. We’ll challenge outdated ideas of the ideal partner and redefine what happiness looks like in modern relationships. Don’t miss your chance to discover true love - watch now!

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0:00.0	The fairy tale.
0:02.0	Now, how does that land on you?
0:04.0	Does it make you go?
0:05.0	Fuck, yes, we have to be more realistic about love.
0:07.0	Or does it make you go,
0:09.0	no!
0:10.0	I desire the fairy tale and that's what I will be getting.
0:13.0	Well, when dating coach to Mona Hoffman suggests that you,
0:16.0	fuck the fairy tale, she's kind of hoping that you feel a bit of both.
0:21.1	Are we rejecting the idea that love can be all that we hope and love can be fantastical?
0:28.2	I'm rejecting this idea that love has to look one way.
0:31.7	I'm rejecting that we have to feel chemistry on the first date.
0:36.4	I'm rejecting that we have to date by a list
0:39.3	and somebody needs to check all of these boxes.
0:41.3	And so like, what is the it that all of us are told
0:44.3	we have to attain in order to have a love life worth being proud of?
0:48.3	Let's examine what the fairy tale actually is
0:51.3	and who is worthy of it.
0:53.3	And I think that this is actually a pretty heavy and nuanced conversation that I cannot
0:57.7	wait to dive into with Demona.
1:00.0	And look, there are some people that are listening right now that might be like, no,
1:04.4	I got to have the car.
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