Hey everyone, welcome back to Jillian on Love. So today's episode is called Run. And I decided to take some pretty intense listener questions where my advice to them is to get out of this situation

that they are in and there are times where I tell people you've got to stay and work it out

and there are other times where it's just so important to leave and I think think that what I feel so committed to because it breaks my heart is how many people,

and look, I've been there too years ago, how many people don't trust themselves?

You know, it's like they know that something is wrong deep down and they don't

feel good. And yet they don't trust themselves to make the right decision. They don't trust what

they're feeling. They don't trust what their what their intuition or their instincts are telling them.

And so we will form these like really strong attachments and this like this connection with

people. And even if it's just like all the signs are pointing in the direction of like this

isn't right, it creates an enormous

internal conflict and it's because this is like the nature of being human this is why it's so

romantic relationships can be so incredibly difficult to navigate but I have a feeling that many of you are going to recognize yourself in these stories and

in my answers, or you're going to know people who need this so badly.

So I'm going to start with this first question, and here we go. Dear Jillian, I have been in a

relationship with a man for two years. When we got together, it was only six months that his ex-fiance

broke up with him. He told me she looked at his phone and found a Christmas text from an ex.

He says, then she broke up with him because she asked for total transparency from him

with other women.

He was devastated when I met him.

And so I knew that he was not ready for a relationship or for anything serious.

But we had great chemistry and kept seeing each other and eventually things got more serious.

But I didn't ever feel prioritized or really valued or seen by him.

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