Hey, what's up everyone? I'm Martina Abrahams, and this is you had me at Black.

Now before we get into this week's story, I wanted to ask those of you who tune in every week,

a really important question.

So you might already know that we like to do live recordings of the podcast,

and so far we've only done them in Oakland, California.

And this summer, we want to come to the

East Coast for the very first time. And we're having a really hard time deciding which

city to come to first, so I wanted to run a poll for our listeners and have you guys help us decide

where we should bring our very first East Coast show. So the two cities that we're deciding between are Baltimore and DC. And you know DC has a very

very special place in my heart. I went to school there, a lot of friends there, but I keep hearing

really, really dope things about Baltimore.

So I want to know should we come to DC?

Should we come to Baltimore?

Which city is going to show up and show out the most

and really come out and vibe with us?

So you can, if you want to vote, you can email us at talk to us at

you had me at black.com or you can shoot us a message on Twitter or tweet us directly at you had me at Black and if you vote and we choose your city

You might just win free tickets to the show

So again the question is should we go to DC or should we hit up Baltimore for our very first

live East Coast show? All righty let's get to this week's story. So this week we hear from

Kaven. Now he's one of those people that tends to take on

other people's issues and make them his own. And he didn't realize how much that was affecting his well-being until something tragic happened to a friend in college.

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