Hey Jim Daley here. If you like the focus on the family broadcast and haven't

grown tired of this voice just yet, you'll love my ReFocus podcast. On ReFocus I

take a deeper dive with a respected thinker on different aspects of culture. I

ask those hard questions that maybe they don't get that often and I don't

shy away from challenging topics to help you share God's grace, truth, and love

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If somebody walked up to you just kind of out of a blue and said, you know what?

You are a selfish person. I wonder how you'd feel. It could stick a bit.

But we all have to admit we're selfish sometimes. In fact, I just had to do

this the other day. I said something and I so regretted it. And I processed

for a couple of hours with God on and off throughout the rest of the day. And I

said, the problem is I'm selfish. And I think that was a good conclusion to

draw. And then I decided to ask God to help me with that because I can't fix

that. Because we've been praying for that. Thank you in your life. Full disclosure.

Greg is a prayer partner and he's got a list of answers. I'm John Fuller joined

by author marriage expert prayer warrior and great friend, Dr. Greg Smiley.

And I wonder if anybody has ever brought this up to you. I mean, that was kind

of a hypothetical. But do you have any friends who have ever had that kind of

thing happen to them? God has used my wife in many ways. And he's not here to

defend herself. But honestly, I mean, I love that she's willing to be honest

and she will suspend harmony at times to have some hard conversations.

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