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The Angry Therapist Podcast

Relationships: The Grit, Not The Shine

The Angry Therapist Podcast

John Kim

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.61.1K Ratings

🗓️ 17 June 2024

⏱️ 9 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, John discusses the four pillars of a healthy relationship, embracing the realities of a relationship, and the beauty in the struggle. He emphasizes the importance of chemistry, maintaining separate identities, aligning on a common vision, and building a connection in a relationship. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own rebirth. Hi my I believe in casual over clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose

0:46.3

because self-health doesn't have to be so complicated.

0:49.3

In our digital age it's easy to forget that true lasting relationships require more than just a fancy

0:59.1

filter. They are built through the grit, the honest communication, healthy conflict, the contrast, working through activation, and the open expression that sustains a correction over time.

1:16.0

So in this episode I'm going to talk about the four pillars of a healthy relationship.

1:20.0

I'm going to talk about embracing the realities of a relationship and the beauty in the struggle.

1:27.0

The four pillars of a healthy relationship.

1:31.0

A healthy relationship is like an engine. It requires four key, what I call pistons pumping, in

1:38.4

harmony for it to move forward. The first piston is chemistry and attraction, that initial spark that draws you to each other.

1:47.8

But that alone of course is not enough. And the second piston is having separate containers,

1:53.6

maintaining your own life, right?

1:55.7

Two separate tubs, not two people in a jacuzzi.

2:00.8

Your own life, your own space, and your own identity.

2:06.0

The third is facing the same direction, aligning on a common outlook and vision for the relationship.

2:15.0

And then the fourth is fanning the fire or building the connection between the two.

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