Zen Parenting Radio. My name is Todd Adams. This is Kathy Adams. And we are brought to you by

Avid and Poofin. And today we are going to be talking about reflections on the big story last week

that happened at Penn State University. Yeah. And we're not going to be talking about reflections on the big story last week that happened at Penn State University.

Yeah.

And we're not going to go with the whole – I've been listening to a lot of sports radio.

And to be honest, I'm sick of hearing about it.

But we're going to take it into a healthier, different direction on how we can use this as a lesson.

Right.

A helpful direction.

A helpful direction. Because I think that one of the thing that bothers me about this story, but just bothers me in

general, is there's just a lot of blame.

You know, it's this person's fault, it's this person's fault, it's this person's fault.

And even though, of course, we have to, you know, figure out who should not be working

at a university anymore, I think that's a valuable thing to decide.

There are, you know, a lot of those things are out of our control,

and meaning that we can't control other people, you know.

What we can do is have a practice within our own home

of having a really open communication with our kids.

So if they are struggling with something

as serious as abuse, like someone had touched them or even said something to them that was

inappropriate or, you know, sometimes we're too focused on it. It has to be this really

awful thing. It could just be something like someone was disrespectful to them. Well, and I didn't tell you this, but I listened to, I had some driving this weekend and I listened

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