Redeeming Your Blended Marriage
Focus on the Family with Jim Daly
Focus on the Family
4.7 • 4.5K Ratings
🗓️ 15 September 2025
⏱️ 28 minutes
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Summary
Vanessa and Scott Martindale offer advice for couples on centering their blended marriage around Christ. Hear how to avoid the pitfalls of “inner vows” and prioritize each other. Vanessa and Scott will help you experience the fullness of redemption for your blended family.
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| 0:00.0 | God is at work and he's calling his people to rise in truth. Truth Rising is a powerful new documentary from Focus on the Family and the Colson Center. See how ordinary Christians choose courage in a culture that needs truth. Watch Truth Rising today and find out how you can become an agent of restoration and hope. |
| 0:24.1 | Visit truthrising.com today. |
| 0:26.9 | That's truthrising.com. |
| 0:31.1 | When you get into a blended family, please understand that you're entering elementary school. |
| 0:35.7 | You need to learn. |
| 0:37.1 | So, yes, I want to stay |
| 0:38.5 | connected with my relationship with Christ. Yes, I want to make sure my spouse is right there |
| 0:42.1 | in that priority list. But the third part of that is I need to go back to the basics and get |
| 0:46.7 | back to learning. That's Scott Martindale, and he's with us today on Focus on the Family with |
| 0:52.3 | Jim Daly, along with his wife, Vanessa, to provide |
| 0:55.7 | some advice for couples who are blending their families. |
| 0:58.4 | You know, John, according to God's design for marriage, it should be lifelong, but things |
| 1:02.5 | happen in life. |
| 1:03.6 | A spouse could pass away. |
| 1:05.9 | There are things, there are biblical reasons for divorce that some may have to choose. And we want to make sure that |
| 1:12.7 | everybody hears, nobody is beyond God's restoration, nobody's beyond his reach. And we at |
| 1:19.5 | focus, we want to help you where you're at today to thrive in Christ in your marriage, |
| 1:23.7 | whether it's the first marriage or perhaps a second marriage. We get it. And we know a lot of couples have experienced that. And we want to be here for you. And so today's program is going to be about how to make the best of your blended family situation. And Vanessa and Scott are the founders of blended kingdom families, a ministry that provides support and resources for blended families. |
| 1:46.1 | They have four sons, and they've written a terrific book called Blended and Redeemed, |
| 1:51.1 | the go-to field guide for the modern step family. Stop by the show notes to find out more about |
| 1:57.3 | our guests and this exceptional book. Scott and Vanessa, welcome to focus on the |
| 2:01.1 | family. It's great to have you. Thank you. Thank you so much. Now, the fact that you've raised four sons, maybe we should be doing a parenting program, not a marriage program, but maybe next time we can concentrate on that because I've had, I have two boys and you have four. Wow, that's a lot. And that's a great thing, by the way. |
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