Am I the jerk for shutting off the movie halfway through and making my boyfriend feel bad?

My boyfriend, Wyatt and I, always watch movies together every time we have days off that end up

on the same day, especially since the pandemic. This was posted in 2021, and we go back and forth

on who picks the movie. But I've noticed, he's usually talking through my movie choices,

either pointing out plot holes or just talking down about a movie in one way or another.

I never act this way when it's his turn to pick the movie,

even if I don't care for it.

Like the last movie he chose, the fountain.

I was so confused until halfway through and then bored the rest of the film, but I didn't talk about it. Like the last movie he chose, The Fountain. I was so confused until halfway through and then

bored the rest of the film, but I didn't talk during the movie or constantly dump on it either.

And even at the end, when he asked what I thought, I said it was all right, even though I thought

the movie wasn't good. It tried to do a bunch of different things all at once and ended up doing nothing, but

he seemed really fond of it, so I didn't want to hurt his feelings. But he doesn't seem to have

that mindset when it comes to him watching my picks. I've told him to shush and to just watch the

movies, but he just sighs loudly and says they're boring. If I tell him to stop, he gets all huffy and goes totally silent

and usually takes his phone out to play a game or scroll the internet,

totally ignoring me and the movie.

It really hurts my feelings.

And yesterday was my turn to choose again,

and I picked a good movie that really hit me hard as a kid.

I bawled when I first watched it and I still tear up to this day.

And I told him this movie was special to me.

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