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Flying Free

Raising Girls to Resist Toxic Teachings on Sex, Self, and Speaking Up [223]

Flying Free

Natalie Hoffman

Emotional, Narcissism, Christianity, Abuse, Religion & Spirituality, Spiritual, Christian, Self-improvement, Education, Divorce, Marriage

51K Ratings

🗓️ 16 May 2023

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

You deserve better. Your daughters deserve better. The women around you deserve better. She deserves better. This is a sentiment Sheila Wray Gregoire strongly believes in, and she is here today not only to introduce you to her new book, She Deserves Better, but to tell you exactly why you deserve better and how you can heal from the lies you grew up believing about purity culture, sex, modesty, men, and more.


Join Natalie and Sheila as they discuss the harmful lies you were taught to believe, how you can heal, and how you can help raise the next generation to have a better chance at believing and living in the truth.


Key Points From This Episode:

  • Why She Deserves Better was written and the stats to back up the book.
  • How purity culture was born (and why it’s a big bunch of lies squashed together because of fear and then fed to us and our children).
  • How to help our children have high self-esteem.
  • Why Christian women struggle with vaginismus at twice the rate of the general population.
  • How She Deserves Better can help you reparent yourself.
  • Why telling the truth to our children about sex is vital to their physical, mental, and emotional health.

Access the transcript, read the show notes, and/or ask Natalie a question here

Related Resources:

  • Read She Deserves Better by Sheila Wray Gregoire not only to reparent yourself, but to help your daughters learn how to resist the toxic teachings surrounding sex, self, and speaking up.
  • Connect with Sheila on her website, Bare Marriage.
  • If you are a Christian woman who thinks you may be in an emotionally destructive marriage, learn more at https://flyingfreenow.com
  • I'll send you (free!) the first chapter of my book, Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage, which has an assessment to help you figure out if your relationship is abusive or not. All you have to do is hop on my mailing list at https://flyingfreesisterhood.com/free-download
  • You can also find out about our online education and support program for women of faith at https://joinflyingfree.com
  • And finally, if you are a divorced Christian woman who wants to take back her life and get healthy, lose weight, have amazing relationships, get things done, build a business or career, and even find a good man (if you want one) - check out Flying Higher at https://joinflyinghigher.com

Sheila Wray Gregoire is an author, podcaster, and researcher into evangelicalism and sex. The founder of baremarriage.com, together with her team she has surveyed over 32,000 people for her books The Great Sex Rescue and She Deserves Better. Her goal is to change the evangelical conversation about sex to be healthy, evidence-based, and rooted in Christ. A graduate of Queen’s University, she’s married to her husband Keith, a pediatrician, who writes and speaks with her.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi, this is Natalie Hoffman of Flying Free Now.com and you're listening to the

0:09.3

Flying Free Podcast, a support resource for women of faith, looking for hope and healing from hidden

0:16.4

emotional and spiritual abuse.

0:18.9

Welcome to episode 223 of the Flying Free Podcast. Today we have Sheila Ray

0:29.7

Greg War back with us for a discussion about what our daughters deserve from us as parents

0:35.8

and as a Christian community. Sheila is an author, podcaster, and researcher into evangelicalism and sex.

0:44.0

She's also the founder of Bear Marriage.com

0:47.3

and together with her team she has surveyed over 32,000 people for her books, The Great Sex Rescue, and her newest book, She Deserves Better.

0:59.3

Now if you want to hear our conversation on her book, The Great Sex Rescue, you can head over to episode 108 of the

1:05.9

Fine Free Podcast.

1:07.6

Welcome back, Sheila.

1:08.6

It's great to be here.

1:10.6

Wow, like you got it, what's that 115 episodes in between? That's pretty good.

1:14.6

I know. For some reason I thought that I had had you on here more than I have.

1:20.0

I think this is only the second one. Oh, we need to remedy that.

1:24.0

I was going to say...

1:25.0

We chat all the time in the background, so yeah.

1:28.0

Right.

1:29.0

Well, okay, you have this brand new book out.

1:32.0

I'm so excited about it. Can you give us an overview of it? It's called She Deserves Better.

1:36.8

Tell us why you wrote it and some of the research that went into it.

1:40.4

Sure. Well, I got to go back in time to the great sex rescue, which as people hopefully will remember,

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