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I, a 23-year-old female, am dazed away from giving birth and my 37-year-old boyfriend just decided to tell me that he can't be at the birth because he's married. I'm just in shock right now.

Like, I almost feel numb, but I really appreciate everyone here for your help. I was really happy and looking forward to the baby and I just feel really sad right now so I need to take a breather.

Everything is ready for the baby and I'm so excited to meet him, but Jesus! So first off, I know the age gap probably should have been a red flag, but I was stupid.

We've been together for two years but he lives in a different city. When I got pregnant, he said he was going to move to my city and we would move in together. He just needed to finalize some things with his ex-wife.

He told me he was divorced when we met and I never had any reason to question it. I knew that he had two kids with her as well, he told me the truth about that. Just not that he wasn't divorced or even separated.

So fast forward, I'm 39 weeks pregnant and he suddenly got uncommunicative, which is less than ideal when you're literally about to give birth.

Bear in mind that he was supposed to have been fully moved in here about a month ago, but he blamed COVID.

Today, I found that I'm going to be induced on Monday unless baby decides to come out over the weekend so I contacted him and I was like, okay, what's going on?

And that's when he told me that he isn't actually separated or divorced. He never told his wife about anything and now he felt like he was back into a corner.

I don't feel sorry for him for that because that's his own fault.

But obviously, literally four days before giving birth isn't the time you want to get this news and I have no idea what to do now.

Tell him to f off, obviously, but what else? I mean, I feel like I can take care of the baby, but I was preparing to have a partner to take care of it with me, you know?

I don't even know what I'm asking for in terms of advice, but any advice from moving forward and handling this is appreciated.

OP, step one, find a family lawyer ASAP. Step two, do everything they tell you to.

Step three, dump that loser. Step four, make sure you save every communication you two have ever had because it's going to make it a lot easier to

sue them for child support later. Our next Reddit post is from throwaway slapped. I'm a 21 year old female and my 64 year old stepfather slapped me and I don't know how to process it.

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