Welcome to R-slash, am I the butthole, where OP refuses to sign over half of her house?

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Am I the butthole for refusing to put my husband's name on the title of my house?

I'm a 30-year-old woman, and I've been married to my husband, who's 34 for eight years now.

We live in a culture where you never combine your finances after marriage.

Also, in the event of a divorce, there's nothing like common property or anything like that.

You keep what you bought and anything that has your name on it. We met while we were studying,

graduated the same year, and have the same income. Though I also do a bit of freelance work on the side.

We're so in tune with everything, except how we spend money, and he likes to travel while I

am a homebody. Since the first day of marriage, I've proposed that we share expenses equally.

Then, we should have a savings account to save for a house. He didn't want to save for a house.

He said that his money is better spent on experiences. And anyway, there's nothing wrong with

renting until we're in our 50s. Then we can buy a house. In the end, we agreed to have a shared

account for expenses. Then, whatever's left is ours to do with whatever we want. He tends to take

at least two weekend trips with his friends, staying at expensive hotels, and going to concerts.

Also, even though I cook almost every meal at home, most times, he would just order out for lunch

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