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joinhoney.com slash r slash. Am I the butthole for refusing to let my husband pull $14,000 out of

my account without signing a contract? I'm a 36 year old woman and I've been married to my husband

who's 42 for two years. I've never been married before him, but he was married twice and has six

kids. He requested that our finances be split, which is fine by me because seeing how he blows

through his money is so frustrating. He says that he has kids, commitments and has to provide,

but I don't think that kids would need that much money to live like the other kids. His bank

account is almost always empty, whereas mine has over $20,000. We take turns paying for daily

expenses and stuff. Lately, he's been struggling with money. He borrowed from a number of people,

including my own brother, about $4,000 from him just a week ago. He just seemed desperate for money.

I asked him what the deal was and he said that he needed the money for the kids, which seemed

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